Think before you cast a stone!!

[anon361]

So in light of a recent comment I made which turned out to be completely out of order which I have whole heartedly apologised to the lady in question (no need to bring things back up or name names, if you know what or who I'm referring to great, if you don't, sorry, best leave it alone) anyway, I would like to re-iterate that it's ladies livelihoods we are dealing with and while we see no harm in a little idle gossip we should sit back and think about the ramifications of what we post.
You would think at this stage I would have learnt, I keep myself to myself for the most part but occasionally you are told stuff, we, myself included should really learn to keep this information unless someone is in danger or in harm's way to ourselves unless it's proven to be true. People might tell you things with the best of intentions but how are we to know there source is correct.
This job is hard enough without us amateurs butting in stirring shit or unintentionally putting a lady in harm's way,
I don't mind warning each other of possible risks to us clients but if you do warn someone be sure you have your facts correct and where possible, limit the amount of people you tell, you never know who is reading!!
PS. I'm not getting into a debate about past issues, on this occasion I know I was wrong, we all make mistakes and he who hasn't can cast the first stone, I'm still learning and will be until the day I die, I can only apologise for what I have done wrong and hope those who are effected can accept it.

[Forrest]

I don't know what you said or did, Anon and, as you said, I don't need to know at this stage.

I think we have all been guilty of something or other, in our personal life, and in this virtual world.

Gossip is a dangerous thing, but I'm sure there are many(members & escorts) that participate in it,
behind the scenes, and don't give a second thought to whether the information they are passing
on is accurate, or even relevant as something to be shared.

I agree with the sentiment "Let he or she who is without sin, cast the first stone"

Some on here are far too quick to judge, but don't like being judged themselves.

To err is human, to forgive divine.

[experiencedguy]

Yup, we all say dumb things sometimes, and bygones are bygones. I don't know and don't want to know, but you're man enough to admit and apologise.

Kudos.

[anon361]

Yup, we all say dumb things sometimes, and bygones are bygones. I don't know and don't want to know, but you're man enough to admit and apologise.

Kudos.

Thanks, I'm not looking for good graces, if anything I just want people to open their eyes and think before posting.. I have learnt the hard way, hopefully others can learn the easy way from other peoples mistakes..

[Morpheus]

So in light of a recent comment I made which turned out to be completely out of order which I have whole heartedly apologised to the lady in question (no need to bring things back up or name names, if you know what or who I'm referring to great, if you don't, sorry, best leave it alone) anyway, I would like to re-iterate that it's ladies livelihoods we are dealing with and while we see no harm in a little idle gossip we should sit back and think about the ramifications of what we post.
You would think at this stage I would have learnt, I keep myself to myself for the most part but occasionally you are told stuff, we, myself included should really learn to keep this information unless someone is in danger or in harm's way to ourselves unless it's proven to be true. People might tell you things with the best of intentions but how are we to know there source is correct.
This job is hard enough without us amateurs butting in stirring shit or unintentionally putting a lady in harm's way,
I don't mind warning each other of possible risks to us clients but if you do warn someone be sure you have your facts correct and where possible, limit the amount of people you tell, you never know who is reading!!
PS. I'm not getting into a debate about past issues, on this occasion I know I was wrong, we all make mistakes and he who hasn't can cast the first stone, I'm still learning and will be until the day I die, I can only apologise for what I have done wrong and hope those who are effected can accept it.

I think the key thing to consider before posting anything is what you've highlighted above Anon - it's ladies livelihoods we are dealing with !!!! Things have been said on the forum that have completely ruined a lady's business. There are threads that escalate into a lynch mob - and essentially the escort concerned gets tried without a jury and without a realistic chance of defending herself. This sort of practice should stop.

I would also like to point out that these rules should apply to client and escort posters alike. Escorting is hard enough without us amateurs (or fellow professionals) butting in stirring shit or unintentionally putting a lady in harm's way or destroying her career.

I am not referring to any specific threads or incidents, but in the there are many to choose from.

[Julius Caesar]

Nice honest post anon

[wolfie]

I know exactly what you mean anon and the particular incident you are referring to.
Lessons learned by us should be that irresponsible posting not only puts the individuals anonymity at risk but also her security and business.
Very well summed up Morph and Credit where Credit is due for your honesty and public acknowledgement of that error anon

[carlos marvado]

Like Brother Forrest, I have'nt a f**king clue what you're on about Brother Anon, but I have to say that your piece was very well written and it's obvious to all, that your schlong is'nt the only thing big about you.

[doodlebug]

Great post Anon, honest and well said.

However the thread title reminds me of a joke I just have to share....

It was in the time of Jesus, the prostitute was in the town square and the angry mob had gathered to stone her to death. Jesus steps forward, raises his hands and says "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone". The disgruntled mob drops their stones and are on the point of dispersing...suddenly from the back of the crowd comes a huge rock...bang his the girl on the head. The crowd gasps and parts......

At the back wiping dust from her hands is a little old lady smiling to herself. Jesus looks at her and says.....

For Fucks sake mother, I thought I asked you to stay at home!!!!!

[Monkeynut]

Good post anon .......