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[gigity]

qq lads and ladies. Ive never been with an escort before but I want to give it a go but dont really know what to say on the phone if I ring them. I think to myself how can I go meet an escort when I cant even ring them. Im fairly shy and not that experienced sexually but want to give it a go. Any suggestions?

[herodotus]

Maybe you should go pm someone first and break the ice, as it were. But if you dont want to do that then just be polite on the phone. Probably best to go for a girl with plenty of reviews and who will be able to put you at ease.

Oh and be honest from the beginning so the girl knows that you are shy etc and not just a complete weirdo.

qq lads and ladies. Ive never been with an escort before but I want to give it a go but dont really know what to say on the phone if I ring them. I think to myself how can I go meet an escort when I cant even ring them. Im fairly shy and not that experienced sexually but want to give it a go. Any suggestions?

[pness]

Welcome gigity . .My first visit to an escort was yesterday.

[newworld]

Ye I'm new here too exciting place

[harry10]

qq lads and ladies. Ive never been with an escort before but I want to give it a go but dont really know what to say on the phone if I ring them. I think to myself how can I go meet an escort when I cant even ring them. Im fairly shy and not that experienced sexually but want to give it a go. Any suggestions?

Was in the same boat 18 months ago. Clearly remember making that first phone call. Was so nervous but the escort concerned was fantastic.
Pick an escort with good reviews and good luck.

[Morpheus]

qq lads and ladies. Ive never been with an escort before but I want to give it a go but dont really know what to say on the phone if I ring them. I think to myself how can I go meet an escort when I cant even ring them. Im fairly shy and not that experienced sexually but want to give it a go. Any suggestions?

Welcome Gigity. We all get nervous. I still get nervous when trying to make contact with an escort I haven't met before.

And the first time obviously can be nerve wracking.

However, there really isn't a need to be nervous. This isn't like trying to chat up a girl in a bar. It is a business transaction. Thats cold but true.

You just need to be polite - and not waste the girls time.

Suggested steps for your first time (from someone who hasn't been too long at it either!)

1) Pick a few girls that your would like to see - eg. 4 or 5 (no point just picking one - or she may be engaged and you'll just end up ringing her every 5 minutes like a stalker.

May I suggest that for your first time you only pick girls with verified pictures, and plenty of reviews. You may want to be braver once you become a dab hand at this (but that is at your disgression, and I wouldn't advise it)

2) Pick a day when you are going to take the plunge. Preferably on a day when you actually have time and are not rushing out during your 30 minute lunch break

3) When you get through to the lady, introduce yourself by name (your punting name, not your real one!!). Confirm that it is the lady you want on the phone. Thank her politely for taking your call and tell her that you would like to meet her for an appointment.

Inevitably the lady will ask you two questions at this stage:
i. What time do you want to see her
ii. How long do you want the appointment for

So make sure you've figured out what you want or you'll just sound like a time waster.

4) Go meet the lady at the appointed time. Ensure you leave early. Suss out where to park on the map before you get there (if you are not familiar with the area). Call her when you get to the landmark. Be aware that she may be in the shower or running late - so if she doesn't answer - send a txt message.

A lot of girls give you a missed call to let you know to call back. It's a cost saving measure I think. Just go with it and call her back. When getting directions- don't repeat them out loud so everyone around you can hear! Make sure that you are facing the landmark the same way she thinks you are facing it. Otherwise your lefts and rights may not be her lefts and rights.

5) If you must - discreetly write down apartment block and number (if you don't trust yourself to remember it). Nothing worse than looking and feeling a tool by going to the wrong apartment.

6) Door opens... your jaw drops! You're almost there! Two final things: i) Hand over the "donation" at the start ii) Take a shower (even of you've had one at home - it's the polite thing to do).

7) ENJOY!!!!!!!!!!! Once bitten, forever smitten!

As for any other stuff, I'm sure you'll figure it out along the way.

[max california]

Well said, Morph, shouldbe a sticky.

[Morpheus]

P.S. 3 cardinal rules for the punter

1) Always respect the lady and be polite

2) Never haggle her rates. She isn't a second hand car! And it cheapens you. If you can't afford her, go elsewhwere.

3) Make sure your crack, sack and tackle are scrubbed so clean that she will be prepared to eat of it. And take a second shower when you get to her place anyway.


-And with that my son, go forth and conquer!!

[Morpheus]

Well said, Morph, shouldbe a sticky.

I think the said lads will have plenty of "stickies" if they follow the above advice!!

[dr love]

Well said there gents , all good and true advice .: doc