I'd like your thoughts, punters and ladies, on my situation today.

I pm'd a lady at 5.30pm yesterday for an appt today at Noon for 2 hours as I usually do. She replied and said she would be working in the area all day and to confirm in the morning.

I rang at 9.30am, no reply, mailbox is full. I pm'd to confirm and ask if earlier was possible. She replied shortly after to say that Noon was not available as she had an errand to do at 1pm. She had not confirmed Noon as available 100%, she did not offer an alternative time but hoped to see me another day.

I replied that I was disappointed with what had happened as I had arranged my day to suit the appointment. I also said that I would be difficult for me to book again as my annoyance would upset the atmosphere of any future booking.

We have not fallen out over the events in question but it has ensured that I would not book the lady again as it is unlikely we would get along well in an intimate situation.