Love and young escorts

[ksteve]

'Romance', I think , is something in particular that all young girls dream about. That special boy/man that whips them off their feet, that knight in shining armour -- some are lucky enough to experience it, some not so. I wonder to what extent young ladies who escort are deprived forever of the innocence and magic of this experience ?

[Amy Alison]

I woudn't call myself a young girl but I am a firm believer all human emotions need to be experienced by all, escorts included.

We are actually very good in separating real emotion from our jobs and I would say most escorts have happy private relationships or at least dream one day to get one.

The kight in shinny armour ... nope, there is no such thing but it sometimes adds to certain fantesy scenarios.

I wonder to what extent young ladies who escort are deprived forever of the innocence and magic of this experience ?

None or very little. Same may find it hard to adjust if our work life is very busy but I do think we all have someone special or at least dream of finding that someone special.

[benin]

'Romance', I think , is something in particular that all young girls dream about. That special boy/man that whips them off their feet, that knight in shining armour -- some are lucky enough to experience it, some not so. I wonder to what extent young ladies who escort are deprived forever of the innocence and magic of this experience ?

that just seems cruel bud.

[saoirsemac]

love can wait till i am retired form this and have my career i am studying for on track
same applies to boyfriends

too complicated if u ask me

and broken hearts are not nice

look what a bitch i am now

[monster_monster]

'Romance', I think , is something in particular that all young girls dream about. That special boy/man that whips them off their feet, that knight in shining armour -- some are lucky enough to experience it, some not so. I wonder to what extent young ladies who escort are deprived forever of the innocence and magic of this experience ?

don't forget the deluded older men that think these younger escorts really love them back

[saoirsemac]

don't forget the deluded older men that think these younger escorts really love them back

****cough***

[Amy Alison]

don't forget the deluded older men that think these younger escorts really love them back

When there is always a risk in this business to be missunderstood.

If you're nice and flirty, people may think you are really into them. Sometimes you are, sometimes you aren't

So just use your common sense, take decisions after a long time of pondering and always think of the big picture.

[Franken996]

'Romance', I think , is something in particular that all young girls dream about. That special boy/man that whips them off their feet, that knight in shining armour -- some are lucky enough to experience it, some not so. I wonder to what extent young ladies who escort are deprived forever of the innocence and magic of this experience ?

Interesting topic- because so many girls become sexually active relatively early I'd guess they can already parse out the difference between love & lust even in civi world. It does strike me that some younger escorts may catch an (understandably) distorted & cynical view of romance...but I'd be a hypocrite if I was to make a value statement...

[saoirsemac]

what funny some guys seem taken aback when u say no i dont love u and no i dont want to be ur girlfriend
and then they reckon ur cold

since when did good sex and fun need love????

the kind of guys u expect love form escort as in real love and a view to a relationship really shud not punt!!
even the cheeky ones who are like we had a really good time fancy a drink with me off the books...

eh no sorry, u get soairse not ***********! and u got to pay for saoirse time!

i think alot more punters fall in love than escorts

[Amy Alison]

i believe when i retier from this job i will have a better chance of finding love than most females

1. i will not have jumped into marriage in my 20's, before i would be able to find out who i am first

2. im no so eaisly impressed with flowers etc etc as my job as learnt me flowers gifts are easily bought and given but actual thought, compassion, feelings are harder to give to someone there fore would impress me more

3. im not so easily fooled by lust, etc so i can tell true feelings and love better

4. i have learnt not to beleive everything that comes out of a mans mouth before or after sex

i could probably go on lol

when your young and havent done this job your more easily sweept off your feet by fake, false realities where as after working as a lady of the night you learn to cherrish true love and you can spot true love and false fake or lust

i want to be swept off my feet by a man who truly loves me, who would die for me , who only has eyes for me only then would i even consider getting married and haveing kids

i find many are fouced pushed into marriage to young, when they dont even know who they them selfves are never mind be able to decided to spend the rest of there lives with another, there fore so many are stuck in marriages with out actually experiencing love, they may have thought they loved them at the time but it wasnt it was lust,

Well said, Kelly.

I would say most escorts make wonderful wifes later on.
Experienced in all angles, knowing what a guy wants and how to keep the candle burning.
Many are as well happy to join swinging clubs with the partner, knowing fully well that sex doesn't always equal emotion.

Also, very unlikely for them to cheat, not like most "civies" that easily jump into bed after marriage with the first cute guy that winks on them.

P.S. I am an exception to the rule. I make an awful wife