Ok lads, just wanted to get yer view on punting while in a relationship or even married. Does much of it go on? How does it affect your relationship? Feelings of guilt? Discuss
Ok lads, just wanted to get yer view on punting while in a relationship or even married. Does much of it go on? How does it affect your relationship? Feelings of guilt? Discuss
Escorts do things my OH would never even think about. I pay, we do what we do. I go home. It's not rocket salad.
timdog (14-11-11)
Ask Google!
Life's too short to drink bad wine....
wolfie (15-11-11)
never went with a escort while in a relationship,i had sex with my best friend's lady once.Felt really bad after it cause he was in love with her.
wolfie (15-11-11)
From anecdotal observations online, backchannel & from parties etc, I'd hazard a guess that well over half of punters (maybe as much as 70%) have a significant other in civilian life....
To call them Loverats may be simplifying things a wee bit- many of these gents are in sexless marriages & just want to scratch a physical itch once in a while. Some ( albeit a small % but a demographic that does exist) have an open relationship whereby the partner knows full well what is going on & accepts it to some extent.
Don't get me wrong.. many (prob most) guys do sneak around in the shadows in this fine hobby of ours- but it's probably the lesser of two evils. Guilt is a purely personal thing, imo so long as you're not hurting anybody ( that includes emotional, healthwise & financial), why would you feel bad?
Don't see escorts when I am in a realationship .
I will play with the toys that god has given me .
MrNiceGuy2010 (14-11-11)
it's all a matter of opinion anyway. There's mrniceguy who doesn't punt while in a relationship but had no problem banging his friends missus.
You could argue that one is worse than the other either way
Haven't been in a relationship since I started seeing escorts
There is nothing worse for the lying soul than the mirror of reality
wolfie (15-11-11)
I like the taught of being a love rat....
"Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. Yes is the answer."
wolfie (15-11-11)
i could never look at another woman since i got married....i close my eyes!
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