What would you get hung for ?

[ksteve]

UkHeather recently queried why guys are prepared to risk everything (longterm partner / wife, family etc ) by visiting escorts.

To those guys in that position , what do you think would be the nail in your coffin if you were to be caught out ?

I would have thought most guys would survive being caught out in a 'once - off ' type episode, maybe even a few more stretched over a long period of time.Maybe some of you think being caught out once would be enough to do fatal damage , alternatively, others might think discovery of multiple no - strings attached , paid sex would not be fatal ?

I would have thought the following examples would be fatal;

* transmission to your SO of an STI

* a large history of booking many escorts over a long period of time

* discovery of lieing and deceit traced to times when you were in fact visiting escorts

* wasting of funds on escorting when badly needed elsewhere

Could your relationship survive any of the above ?