There is nothing you can do if she has made it clear she does not want a relationship better to just move on and I know its hard when you have real feelings for someone but your just causing yourself a lot of pain
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Sorry to read about your woes and it really is an awful place to be. However on the one hand the girl had the honesty and sincerity to share what she wanted with you. Ok she has hurt your feelings, but a least she wasn't unfaithful etc. She obviously had and would still appear to have respect for you. In one sense she has made this call (and I am sure she also feels the loss and sadness you have) but is been true to herself. And I imagine the last thing she would wish for would be you to mope about. Give it time acknowledge your sadness, talk to your buddies and bit by bit try and rebuild your life. It will take time but will be worth it. And with regard to the booze it is a well know source of depression when used to excess so maybe get active in sport etc and distract your self, and the gym is a good suggestion. Take care and I know it’s a cliché, but it will sort itself in time.
UKHeather (26-10-11)
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?
Moreover, why waste any emotion on someone who seems to be taking steps to alienate and hurt you?
Way I see it, if someone doesn't want to be with you, or doesn't care for your feelings - it's no big loss for them to disappear from your life.
Life's too short to give a flying fuck about the woulda, shoulda, couldas.
Some of the most powerful lyrics that have seen me through the tough times are:
I'll never long for what might have been / Regret won't waste my life again
- from this majorly kick ass song.
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I dissagree with you. It seams to me taht you are judging on escort being ubnormal grls, which they are not.
I may know only few ( very very little girls) who will do this job for longer time than 3 years, usually after this period of time most girls retired.
There is no recipt for happines, no matter what job you are doing. I am not an escort and never been ne, I may not understand your work fully, but in my opinion this is personal choice and your character rather than job you do.
Come on who lives those days for work satissfaction only entire days and nights? We are human , we need more than work, this is why the social media are on top now.
by normal i meant a girl who does not earn a living by sleeping with men,
im not saying that statement is right but it certinaly complicates things
most men wud not want their girlfriend sleeping with other men
as i wudnt want a boyfriend doing the same
dont get me wrong this is business
but not many men will understand that i even envy those who have such men
but until i retire ill have to give love a miss
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sara26 (26-10-11)