Leaving Reviews ....

[ksteve]

I have met lots of escorts but since I joined this community, probably 5 or 6. I was going to leave reviews but havent and I never will and here's why. Not long ago, someone put up a thread about an escort and ruhama and the life she had. If i'm correct, I think maybe 2, 3 escorts max. replied to the thread. None of them came out and said no, thats wrong, not all clients are like what was described in that particular ruhama interview. To me anyway, their silence spoke volumes about what escorts actually think of us behind it all. If I'm right, one of the only escorts who did comment said she agreed with what the girl said in the interview about reviews. Basically how it was pretty fucked up that a man would "score" her on her sexual performance and critique her. Not one escort said anything to the contrary or defended even decent, genuine guys. So for that reason, I wont ever be leaving a review for anyone

Good post.

I have not submitted a review for months now , as I do not want my name appearing on the permanent ' Top Reviewers List ' and E-I have refused my request to stay off that list. I also have had a number of reviews deleted for being submitted outside the 1 month rule. I dont know whether the ladies I have seen give a toss or not but I would hate them to think I failed to leave one as I had a negative experience, as truthfully I enjoyed meeting them all .


I have mixed feelings about submitting reviews. I suppose the primary purpose for reviews is to advise other guys and not to boost the careers of the escorts themselves. However, I became aware early on that some ladies thought a positive review was very important for them and they ridiculed ladies who opted out of the review system. In that knowledge,I decided to leave reviews but like you, I was somewhat taken aback at the level of disgust of reviewers shown by 'Amy' and the tacit support of those views shown by escorts here through their silence and when it was clear that the thread had been read by a very significant number of them.

I am considering perhaps finding a way of inserting a list of the ladies I have visited in my profile page / blog and if other guys are interested in my views then I would be happy to talk to them by pm. That might be a good compromise all round.

[Lucy Chambers]

I do take on board what you are saying Morpheus and I do see the relevance of your points.

I only picked the reviews part of Amys interview as it was related to the subject matter of this thread.

My point doesnt necessarily just refer to the reviews aspect of appointments, i mean on the whole, as gentleman who acquire the services of an escort, we were left hanging, left to be portayed as the scum of the earth by ruhama and nobody spoke up for us except ourselves which we were naturally always going to do. The opinions of those who probably hold the most credence, the ladies who see us day in, day out were nowhere to be seen. I have no problem with my hobby but it would be nice to know that we have a little support from the girls. I dont want to keep harping on about it as every lady is entitled to think what she wants of me, but when im polite, mannered and respectful, it does hurt a little to think at the back of it, im just another joe punter who makes her skin crawl

Erm, that isnt actually true either, though since we are on the subject I take it that you are out there beating the working girls drum at any given time? If you really really believed that the lady was having to quell her crawling skin, then why would you have sex with them at all, let alone get annoyed enough to claim you will never leave a review as that would be degrading?

I think we need to get some balance here. None of us spoke up because there wasnt any need to. Commenting on propaganda tends to give it a credence it does not warrant. Most of the ladies wont have seen it, and those that did probably laughed and went though with there 4.45. This info was put out by the same people who said that another escort was seeing 15-18 men a day and not allowed to leave her room or eat.

Since you are so entirely sure that no escort has ever spoken out on behalf of you gentlemen, on just this subject, I suggest you read the site Turn Off The Blue Light and also Jim Cusacks interview, and then come back to berate us. I hope you also put your thoughts in writing to your TD.

[mellors]

I do take on board what you are saying Morpheus and I do see the relevance of your points.

I only picked the reviews part of Amys interview as it was related to the subject matter of this thread.

My point doesnt necessarily just refer to the reviews aspect of appointments, i mean on the whole, as gentleman who acquire the services of an escort, we were left hanging, left to be portayed as the scum of the earth by ruhama and nobody spoke up for us except ourselves which we were naturally always going to do. The opinions of those who probably hold the most credence, the ladies who see us day in, day out were nowhere to be seen. I have no problem with my hobby but it would be nice to know that we have a little support from the girls. I dont want to keep harping on about it as every lady is entitled to think what she wants of me, but when im polite, mannered and respectful, it does hurt a little to think at the back of it, im just another joe punter who makes her skin crawl

I tend to come down on Morpheus's side on this discussion. I totally understand your point of view and annoyance at the lack of support for clients, but i feel yours is a bit of a sceptical slant. I don't believe that all clients are seen as scum ,judging physical appearence and sexual prowess of their service.I have never felt pressurised into leaving a review and some escorts should be in RADA if their warmth and personality are not real. One example I can think of is that one escort who no longer works asked me to keep in touch with her as a 'friend' ,which i have done and she with me.

[Bruno69]

I only left reviews when I had a particularly good time bc I wouldn't wish to harm a girls business.

And on that note, I would like to wish you all well.

Bruno69's time on EI has come to a close. Need to move on.

Good luck guys and gals.

X

[Techno Viking]

i think there is a difference between a lady not enjoying sex with me because she isnt physically attracted to me as opposed to not enjoying it because she hates me, hates herself and doesnt want to be doing the job she does, big difference. I could willingly have sex with someone who physically did nothing for me if i was gonna be paid 200 quid for it. I think that was a little unfair to say i will have sex with a woman i knowingly doesnt want to do it with me.

I also didnt think it would be degrading to leave a review until one of the only escorts who did comment agreed with the sentiments, how many more think like that but didnt say it for fear of losing business, clients etc?

I didnt know about the turn off the blue light or jim cusack imterview, i simply thought that if the criminalisation of clients who visit escorts and perhaps escorting itself was so important, it might have warranted a few responses from those on the front line? I understand alot of ladies dont read the boards or have forum profiles so not all could comment, butfor those that do and did read it, i would have thought the subject would be slightly more important than their 4.45 and perhaps it wouldnt have been so funny if the thread had been about demonising escorts as vile, low lifes amd not us clients

Apologies, this post was supposed to quote lucy's last reply to me

[ksteve]

I only left reviews when I had a particularly good time bc I wouldn't wish to harm a girls business.

And on that note, I would like to wish you all well.

Bruno69's time on EI has come to a close. Need to move on.

Good luck guys and gals.

X

Take care Bruno. Whilst we dont agree on many things , I always respected your posts. And you have the best avatar on E-I.!! I might steal it !

[Lucy Chambers]

i think there is a difference between a lady not enjoying sex with me because she isnt physically attracted to me as opposed to not enjoying it because she hates me, hates herself and doesnt want to be doing the job she does, big difference. I could willingly have sex with someone who physically did nothing for me if i was gonna be paid 200 quid for it. I think that was a little unfair to say i will have sex with a woman i knowingly doesnt want to do it with me.

I also didnt think it would be degrading to leave a review until one of the only escorts who did comment agreed with the sentiments, how many more think like that but didnt say it for fear of losing business, clients etc?

I didnt know about the turn off the blue light or jim cusack imterview, i simply thought that if the criminalisation of clients who visit escorts and perhaps escorting itself was so important, it might have warranted a few responses from those on the front line? I understand alot of ladies dont read the boards or have forum profiles so not all could comment, butfor those that do and did read it, i would have thought the subject would be slightly more important than their 4.45 and perhaps it wouldnt have been so funny if the thread had been about demonising escorts as vile, low lifes amd not us clients

Apologies, this post was supposed to quote lucy's last reply to me

But thats just it, we are on the front line, everyday. And still here, which speaks for itself. The escorts who are fighting to try and stop the Criminalisation bill arent doing it for themselves, are they? Its the clients who will be criminals then.

As I said, I am more than sure most people missed it, but if you want some view on clients the best bet is to start a thread entitled that, because between you me and the wall, half the ladies here read three threads, the rest five. Its easy to miss something.

[Lucy Chambers]

I only left reviews when I had a particularly good time bc I wouldn't wish to harm a girls business.

And on that note, I would like to wish you all well.

Bruno69's time on EI has come to a close. Need to move on.

Good luck guys and gals.

X

See you soon I hope. Take care x

[UKHeather]

Reviews are only a necessity because they exist at all.

My view is that they feed clients egos first and foremost.

If all reviews disappeared and were banned forever, escorts would still work, as they always have.

[Amy Alison]

Whoever that Amy was, I'm telling you, what she was saying was a lie or she was an exception to the rule.

Escorting business is very competitive. Anybody is as good as their recent reputation.
If your name appears frequently in the Latest Review Section, people are more eager to see you.

Reviews = popularity = a lot of self confidence = more clients = escort will stick around for longer as she is happy with her job and the financial results

The opposite is also valid.

Of course, there are exceptions where the escort is so specialised in some way that she doesn't need any reviews. Or escorts who have a great number of regulars and opt out of reviews as they don't care about taking on more business.

My opinion ? If you like certain escorts and want to see them staying around for longer, do visit and do leave a review.

I am not refering here to anybody who contributed to this thread (honestly I am not), I am talking in general.