Recompense and mentioning of N/A or negative review in the same sentence? I know where I'd tell the guy to stick it (and it wouldn't be in my arse for a change).
If the lady doesn't offer you the extra time without prompting, I think it's tacky and a bit too obvious to bring it up without sounding like a desparate chancer. We ladies get zilch recompence for the chancers and Time-wasters, Look and Go's, and attacks. Everyone suffers on account of their behaviour. And aside from the fact that the OP turned up 10 minutes early (BIG NO NO - who needs that when running a tight schedule) you barely gave her a chance or even factored in the possibility that she simply could not take your call on the dot of the agreed hour.
A genuine client's time wasted is regrettable, don't get me wrong. I'd feel sick if I'd caused such to happen. BUT if the guy decided to go off in a sulk after waiting for less than 10 minutes, he can't expect to get free time as he's now leaving an hour set aside for him (if she isn't a double-booker and I bet she isn't so she had no back up plan when he decided to drive off). I've had a couple of guys do that to me and I save their details to avoid being bothered by them again. They've wasted my time for the sake of waiting five minutes, then have the nerve to try and book again? I do not think so.
Maybe she was running slightly over because someone extended his time (a punter in bed with you is worth two punters who may be no-shows - how often have I kicked someone out when they were prepared to extend their time (with additional money) only for the one due next to not turn up. But in this case, I don't think it was a case of extending since he arrived early and his impatience clearly started 10 minutes before the booking time.
Or maybe she had someone who simply wouldn't leave (you know the kind that is so wonderful he can't believe she doesn't want him to stay with her gratis). She can't use her phone while a booking is in progress which may be why she hung up repeatedly - although if I were running behind on account of the guy with me at the time, I'd tell him I needed to be on the look out for a call at an appointed time and he must accept I would have to take it lest I lose business due to his tardiness, or excuse myself to make a quick call to the person about to be inconvenienced. That's one of the problems we ladies face with over-stayers ... you don't want to be impolite and look at the phone when his time paid for is clearly over. Yet ... there's some poor bugger out there trying to get through.
Or maybe another escort was on the phone to her, lamenting having just been robbed, or raided by police - I called another escort last week who was quite shaken because a friend of hers had just been arrested in another town and she was torn between offering a colleague support (which included an impromptu 2+ hour train ride one way to pick up the distressed lady - and abandoning the bookings she had planned. Anyone calling her during that time (especially if he were calling before his time and thus encroaching on the little time she had to reach a decision in HER OWN TIME) would have probably got a short answer, if any at all.
This job is not an exact science with everything running like clock work. Both punters and escorts need to be flexible in order not to get wound up by the variables in this game that are beyond normal control. What happens if he's late - is he coming at all or a time-waster? How much time do I give him before accepting another booking? Or he spends 10 minutes of a 30 minute booking in the shower and expects her not to start the clock running so the 20 minutes she'd made provision for between bookings to freshen up for the next guy becomes 5 or 10?
What happens if she is running late? Or the land-lord is in there with her and she can't reach you to let you know to wait a little? Or a ladder has appeared last minute in the stockings you stressed you wanted her to wear for you? Or she's forgotten to unmute her phone after her previous booking and can't hear your numerous phone calls. (how many times a day do I make that particular mistake). She sounds like she has worked hard to have a fairly good reputation. I don't think it's one she'd jeopardise deliberately. On the strength of that, he should have given her more lee-way.
But, if he did storm off because he didn't get a reply from her within minutes, that's a chunk of her diary for that day that went empty unless she had a last minute caller to take the spot. Or had double booked. I wouldn't be in the mood to compensate someone that was too impatient to wait.
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Pru
Originally Posted by wolfie
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