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    Quote Originally Posted by dr love View Post
    That level of anticipation we had in the beginning does wane with experience ,so maybe the anticipation is replaced by confidence and thus use this confidence as your replacement for anticipation .: doc
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    Sorry if I'm missing something, but what's wrong with seeing ladies you already know? If you aren't excited about seeing someone new then why do it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by El Gordo View Post
    Sorry if I'm missing something, but what's wrong with seeing ladies you already know? If you aren't excited about seeing someone new then why do it?
    I understand completely what you are saying, but I found a huge thrill in seeing someone new.

    Though I do appreciate and love seeing someone I've seen before.
    I suppose its two different experiences.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dave1dave View Post
    Right, I've recently abstained from seeing any escorts for a month.
    Now I've been to see my favourite lady a few days ago.

    But I'm having a problem with going to see someone new.

    I'm not sure what it is, I've looked at some ladies profiles, even gotten as far as keying in the number in my phone but I've not made the call.

    I'm confused. I seem to have a mental block so to speak.
    ah jaysus- Dave is in love with his fav lady

    Quote Originally Posted by El Gordo View Post
    Sorry if I'm missing something, but what's wrong with seeing ladies you already know? If you aren't excited about seeing someone new then why do it?
    thats called being Married ffs

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    Quote Originally Posted by Franken996 View Post

    thats called being Married ffs
    In that case I'm polygamous.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dave1dave View Post
    I understand completely what you are saying, but I found a huge thrill in seeing someone new.

    Though I do appreciate and love seeing someone I've seen before.
    I suppose its two different experiences.
    I can definitely relate to your dilemma. Part of the block is that when you see the same person on a regular basis, you fall into a set pattern that is comfortable. It works and both parties are happy! Right? Now, you are faced with uncertainty! Yes, there is anticipation and the thrill of discovering something new, BUT you are going to measure it against what you are used to and if it is below par, you will feel disappointed and be thinking, why did I even bother?

    The problem with going to the wonderful lady in question is that it's pretty difficult to surpass that experience.

    You may want to try and have 2 or 3 ladies that provide various experiences. In fact, I will be adding a sweetheart soon. I need different ladies for different experiences.

    Regards.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dave1dave View Post
    Right, I've recently abstained from seeing any escorts for a month.
    Now I've been to see my favourite lady a few days ago.

    But I'm having a problem with going to see someone new.

    I'm not sure what it is, I've looked at some ladies profiles, even gotten as far as keying in the number in my phone but I've not made the call.

    I'm confused. I seem to have a mental block so to speak.

    I wouldn't call it a mental block. I certainly don't see it as a problem.

    You seem to have reached a state of contentedness - with your favourite lady.

    I can completely identify. I have a few favourites and am pretty happy seeing them alternately. There is a real comfort zone and familiarity with this situaltion. And the itch to see new girls dissipates. (I actually find seeing somebody new a bit of an ordeal. Of course it is coupled with the excitement of the novelty of the new experience. But I prefer doing return visits to my favourite ladies).

    In your case Dave, i think we all know who your favourite lady is. And who could blame you for losing interest in seeing anyone else.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Morpheus View Post

    I can completely identify. I have a few favourites and am pretty happy seeing them alternately. There is a real comfort zone and familiarity with this situaltion. And the itch to see new girls dissipates. (I actually find seeing somebody new a bit of an ordeal. Of course it is coupled with the excitement of the novelty of the new experience. But I prefer doing return visits to my favourite ladies).
    Morpheus- I tell you the following as I consider you one of the good guys- as committed punters it is our mission in this life to never allow this "itch to dissipate";
    Here is a good coping technique-
    Don't engage in any sexual activity ( including monkey spanking for ) at least 72 hours.. when you've built up a good head of steam and are thinking about rolling out to one of your favs, fire up your browser & look at some online filth- preferably the type where you'll be bombarded with a porn storm.. ya know, the kind where you're trying to get off but all those fucking windows keep popping up... now is the time to serve your higher calling and help your brother punters by taking one for the team with one of those flaky Italian birds etc
    May the Punting Force be strong within you all ..and leave behind this weak blather about favorites- we are MEN and it's our duty to bang as many women as is humanly possible while we're still drawing breath
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    Quote Originally Posted by Franken996 View Post
    Morpheus- I tell you the following as I consider you one of the good guys- as committed punters it is our mission in this life to never allow this "itch to dissipate";
    Here is a good coping technique-
    Don't engage in any sexual activity ( including monkey spanking for ) at least 72 hours.. when you've built up a good head of steam and are thinking about rolling out to one of your favs, fire up your browser & look at some online filth- preferably the type where you'll be bombarded with a porn storm.. ya know, the kind where you're trying to get off but all those fucking windows keep popping up... now is the time to serve your higher calling and help your brother punters by taking one for the team with one of those flaky Italian birds etc
    May the Punting Force be strong within you all ..and leave behind this weak blather about favorites- we are MEN and it's our duty to bang as many women as is humanly possible while we're still drawing breath


    You are a bad influence brother Franken!!! Just the sort to lead me astray!! Please do continue!!



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    "Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"

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    D1D,

    I have read your 2 most recent threads with interest.

    All I would just like to add this...

    Stop being such a fucking knobhead
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