dr love (07-10-11)
Sorry if I'm missing something, but what's wrong with seeing ladies you already know? If you aren't excited about seeing someone new then why do it?
“I wish you wouldn’t keep appearing and vanishing so suddenly; you make one quite giddy!”
“All right,” said the Cat; and this time it vanished quite slowly, beginning with the end of the tail, and ending with the grin, which remained some time after the rest of it had gone.
max california (07-10-11), Morpheus (06-10-11), Stephanie (07-10-11), UncleBob (06-10-11)
dave1dave (07-10-11)
“I wish you wouldn’t keep appearing and vanishing so suddenly; you make one quite giddy!”
“All right,” said the Cat; and this time it vanished quite slowly, beginning with the end of the tail, and ending with the grin, which remained some time after the rest of it had gone.
I can definitely relate to your dilemma. Part of the block is that when you see the same person on a regular basis, you fall into a set pattern that is comfortable. It works and both parties are happy! Right? Now, you are faced with uncertainty! Yes, there is anticipation and the thrill of discovering something new, BUT you are going to measure it against what you are used to and if it is below par, you will feel disappointed and be thinking, why did I even bother?
The problem with going to the wonderful lady in question is that it's pretty difficult to surpass that experience.
You may want to try and have 2 or 3 ladies that provide various experiences. In fact, I will be adding a sweetheart soon. I need different ladies for different experiences.
Regards.
dave1dave (07-10-11), max california (07-10-11), mellors (07-10-11), Morpheus (06-10-11), UncleBob (06-10-11)
I wouldn't call it a mental block. I certainly don't see it as a problem.
You seem to have reached a state of contentedness - with your favourite lady.
I can completely identify. I have a few favourites and am pretty happy seeing them alternately. There is a real comfort zone and familiarity with this situaltion. And the itch to see new girls dissipates. (I actually find seeing somebody new a bit of an ordeal. Of course it is coupled with the excitement of the novelty of the new experience. But I prefer doing return visits to my favourite ladies).
In your case Dave, i think we all know who your favourite lady is. And who could blame you for losing interest in seeing anyone else.
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"
dave1dave (07-10-11), max california (07-10-11), The Hobbyist (07-10-11), UncleBob (06-10-11)
Morpheus- I tell you the following as I consider you one of the good guys- as committed punters it is our mission in this life to never allow this "itch to dissipate";
Here is a good coping technique-
Don't engage in any sexual activity ( including monkey spanking for ) at least 72 hours.. when you've built up a good head of steam and are thinking about rolling out to one of your favs, fire up your browser & look at some online filth- preferably the type where you'll be bombarded with a porn storm.. ya know, the kind where you're trying to get off but all those fucking windows keep popping up... now is the time to serve your higher calling and help your brother punters by taking one for the team with one of those flaky Italian birds etc
May the Punting Force be strong within you all ..and leave behind this weak blather about favorites- we are MEN and it's our duty to bang as many women as is humanly possible while we're still drawing breath
Last edited by Franken996; 07-10-11 at 00:14.
Morpheus (07-10-11)
Franken996 (07-10-11)
D1D,
I have read your 2 most recent threads with interest.
All I would just like to add this...
Stop being such a fucking knobhead
The elephant is the ONLY mammal that can't jump