Good communication in bed

[UncleBob]

This is something that would seem important for all participants, at least to me

I try (with varying success) to tease out if partners have any medical history or sexual health issues that need some care and attention (a good eye and diplomatic skills are important here). Checking in with your companion if an activity is ok with them to do, comfortable, working for them sexually is also desirable... and many people have fantasies and sexual preferences that they may be hesitant to admit to

Remembering to give plenty of vocal feedback (especially for someone like me, who is naturally quiet during the act) is also good, and don't forget the use of it in helping encourage your partner 'to arrive', which just seems like good manners And don't forget the 'after action report', as you lie there afterwards

What are other people's feelings and experiences on this?

[Legswideopen]

I have no problem about being Vocal in fact I would say I am tooooo loud. In a hotel recently and was told to keep the noise down
got a pillow shoved over my mouth.
Vocal feed back is a turn on if genuine hate the porn star moans and groans.

[Franken996]

Think maybe you're over-complicating this communication stuff,
I thought the shorthand for Irish foreplay was " Brace yourself Brigid"

[UncleBob]

Vocal feed back is a turn on if genuine hate the porn star moans and groans.

Yes, agreed. There's feedback (which helps everyone , and then there's the pornstar stuff which is a turn-off.

[UncleBob]

Think maybe you're over-complicating this communication stuff,
I thought the shorthand for Irish foreplay was " Brace yourself Brigid"

Yeah, and I'm sure that Irish women orgasmed at every sweaty thrust in the missionary position that constituted sex

It goes the other way as well though, which is why I've always preferred 'foreign' women for relationships and sex

[TomEA]

I empathise in the bedroom, while your hammering away at your lovely missus or whatever, she's tell you to do something, feck talking back....no time. Flip her over, smash on with it LOL

[Doozer]

I empathise in the bedroom, while your hammering away at your lovely missus or whatever, she's tell you to do something, feck talking back....no time. Flip her over, smash on with it LOL

You can do the same thing when its that time of the month

Ok ill get me coat

[TomEA]

You can do the same thing when its that time of the month

Ok ill get me coat

True, or you could just move onto the next one LOL

[UncleBob]

I empathise in the bedroom, while your hammering away at your lovely missus or whatever, she's tell you to do something, feck talking back....no time. Flip her over, smash on with it LOL

*facepalm*

[TomEA]

*facepalm*

I'm joking, calm yourself