Don't shoot the messenger

[The Hobbyist]

Well actually sometimes I think u should (not literally of course lol)

This has been on my mind for some time
All hypothetically speaking of course :P
If a guy starts saying she said this about u ect ect between lots of girls
Is it just me or do u think he should cut out the idle gossip

If girls really are saying horrid made up rumours about other girls no need to spread them or pass them on at all, or is the guy just making them up to start with!!
Have any of you seen situations like this before ???
Is the messenger right or wrong to take it upon himself to pass on info ect....

Often, you will find that there are those who gossip with the hope that you may respond and provide information. In fact, you would be surprised how many times people engage on a "fishing expedition" in the "hunt" for information that can be used to cause hurt to others.

There are those who thrive on the misery of those they dislike. Malicious gossip is a means to cause misery and unhappiness to others. Seems to be what the world thrives on these days given what one sees in the media!

Regards.

[mr gear]

what happens between the sheets should stay between the sheets...!!!

[Dohnut Boy]

Are you talking hypthetically here?

Yes, no, hang on brain freeze.

[max california]

I think if Girl A wants to let Girl B know that she's the biggest bitch on the planet it is easy enough to do it without involving a client. I'd besceptical about it

[Lucy Chambers]

Well actually sometimes I think u should (not literally of course lol)

This has been on my mind for some time
All hypothetically speaking of course :P
If a guy starts saying she said this about u ect ect between lots of girls
Is it just me or do u think he should cut out the idle gossip

If girls really are saying horrid made up rumours about other girls no need to spread them or pass them on at all, or is the guy just making them up to start with!!
Have any of you seen situations like this before ???
Is the messenger right or wrong to take it upon himself to pass on info ect....

I think, hypothetically of course That some men are pretty sad individuals who should have been born with a vagina, and some ladies are fishwives. I also think, hypothetically of course, that idle gossip reflects more on those who pass it on. Of course some men may feel playing escorts off against each other somehow puts them in a loop. It does indeed, a nice tight loop..its kind of like a noose

Cool thread honey bun. I like hypothetical threads

[Dohnut Boy]

I think if Girl A wants to let Girl B know that she's the biggest bitch on the planet it is easy enough to do it without involving a client. I'd besceptical about it

Have you actually met WOMEN?


But seriously most girls I know NEVER say it straight to someone elses face, it's easier to be circumspect and tell EVERYONE else except the target of your bile. That's how and why mosst gossip exists!

[TomEA]

somehow puts them in a loop. It does indeed, a nice tight loop..its kind of like a noose

Would not like to be a hypethitcal shit stirrir right now

[Lucy Chambers]

Would not like to be a hypethitcal shit stirrir right now

Indeed.

[TomEA]

Have you actually met WOMEN?


But seriously most girls I know NEVER say it straight to someone elses face, it's easier to be circumspect and tell EVERYONE else except the target of your bile. That's how and why mosst gossip exists!

Yeah so....what were you saying about Lucy in that PM?

[Dohnut Boy]

I think, hypothetically of course That some men are pretty sad individuals who should have been born with a vagina, and some ladies are fishwives. I also think, hypothetically of course, that idle gossip reflects more on those who pass it on. Of course some men may feel playing escorts off against each other somehow puts them in a loop. It does indeed, a nice tight loop..its kind of like a noose

Cool thread honey bun. I like hypothetical threads

As ever Ms Chambers straight to the point.

Think you might be right about most of that, guys love a gossip they just pretend they don't!!! And being "in" on a bit of the girls gossip is bound to make them feel good as it feels like they've been trusted with something personal.


We are after all fairly simple creatures us men.