Don't shoot the messenger

[ciara]

Well actually sometimes I think u should (not literally of course lol)

This has been on my mind for some time
All hypothetically speaking of course :P
If a guy starts saying she said this about u ect ect between lots of girls
Is it just me or do u think he should cut out the idle gossip

If girls really are saying horrid made up rumours about other girls no need to spread them or pass them on at all, or is the guy just making them up to start with!!
Have any of you seen situations like this before ???
Is the messenger right or wrong to take it upon himself to pass on info ect....

[TomEA]

I have been in the situation of telling someone thing like that before, and I regretted it LOL
All the bitching, finally got reverted back in my direction and I was the 'bad guy'

I do think the person in between the 'bullshit' would be in an awkward position, but would you be annoyed if someone you knew, had known all about it and not said anything?

[dr love]

The thing with gossip ciara is it tends to be added to ,and the original rumor is lost or magnified .: doc

[ciara]

I have been in the situation of telling someone thing like that before, and I regretted it LOL
All the bitching, finally got reverted back in my direction and I was the 'bad guy'

I do think the person in between the 'bullshit' would be in an awkward position, but would you be annoyed if someone you knew, had known all about it and not said anything?

Well I guess it kind of depends on who the "messenger" is closest to :S
And if it was a case of a punter/escort situation maybe better say nothing at all ever!!!

Still taking hypethetcal here lol

[harry10]

The thing with gossip ciara is it tends to be added to ,and the original rumor is lost or magnified .: doc

Agree with Doc. The story gets fabricated and they are only doing it in an attempt to make themselves look good.

[max california]

They could be false. Any ladies I see have never had anything bad to say about another lady. They might say it to another escort but not a client, especialy if they know that client sees the lady in question.

[TomEA]

Well I guess it kind of depends on who the "messenger" is closest to :S
And if it was a case of a punter/escort situation maybe better say nothing at all ever!!!

Still taking hypethetcal here lol

Well in that case, talking hypthetically LOL. I think if it is one punter between two escorts (that are bitching), the punter for his/her sake should stay well away from the situation and just play nice like nothing has happened.

Although I can understand what pressure the punter would be under, knowing this and acting like nothings happened.

The two escorts, should take it upon themselves to sort it out. Once they do, you dont want to be on the one that was causing more grief, or else you end up being the one hated by both (word of friendly advice) LOL

[Dohnut Boy]

Surely simpler to keep quiet, as gossip is just that - gossip.

Ends up like Chinese Whispers with one story altered beyond belief after a few re-tellings. If in doubt just keep schtum is my philosophy especially on the old hypotheticals, I mean what if there were no more hypothetical questions!!!!????

[ciara]

Lol we better not let the Nads see this as we've deff said "lol" too much haha

Mmmm well actually nothing to do with mr of course seeing as it's a made up situation and all just wanted to figure would the messenger be right or wrong in taking the "messenger" role upon himself :P

Well in that case, talking hypthetically LOL. I think if it is one punter between two escorts (that are bitching), the punter for his/her sake should stay well away from the situation and just play nice like nothing has happened.

Although I can understand what pressure the punter would be under, knowing this and acting like nothings happened.

The two escorts, should take it upon themselves to sort it out. Once they do, you dont want to be on the one that was causing more grief, or else you end up being the one hated by both (word of friendly advice) LOL

[TomEA]

Surely simpler to keep quiet, as gossip is just that - gossip.

Ends up like Chinese Whispers with one story altered beyond belief after a few re-tellings. If in doubt just keep schtum is my philosophy especially on the old hypotheticals, I mean what if there were no more hypothetical questions!!!!????

Are you talking hypthetically here?