Possible to be fed up with visiting escorts ?

[Lincoln]

I hear ya Banjo. Having no money to punt with anymore has reduced my rate of punting down to about once a month now and I really am realising that it is not the end of the world (and its the predominant reason that the small bit of punting that I do do is with a couple of girls I just really like spending some time with)

That being said though, if money wasnt an object I probably would be out making an absolute pig of myself (well at least I think I would...)

[mellors]

Agree with alot of WT says, although haven't been at it as long. Think Morph was right aswell, perhaps the anticipation lead to anticlimax.
I sometimes feel the same, but then i meet a new escort who blows me away and feel i want to see again,or I spend time with one particular escort and again I just think, I love this. I tend to be more selective these days as money is tight but my favs list is actually increasing.

[john connor]

certainly when you have a less then cool visit you will feel a little pissed off. also when you are back out from the apointment you are on the way down as apposed to being pumped up before you go in.
also we all feel a little bit more guilty now spending money so when we do i suppose we all want it to be really good.
as some others have said one way to ensure this is visit girls you know but even this sometimes does not work.
i think the longer you leave it in between punts the more likely you are to visit less and i have to agree with you sometimes the hassle of getting there really makes me ask myself why the hell do i bother.
but having opened the box i don;t think i will ever be able to close it fully.
i think what you felt banjo all of us feel at some point or another

[Forrest]

Of course it's possible to 'go off' visiting escorts, for several reasons.

Sometimes you can get too much of a good thing, though not necessarily in your case, Banjo,
in light of your recent reviews.

Sometimes money worries can have a subconscious effect on your libido.

Sometimes, work stress can make you tired, and just not in the mood.

Most guys will say that they are 'always up for it', but we don't like to admit otherwise.

I have gone through spells where I wasn't in the mood, but the break made the next
appointment all the more appealing when it came around.

You are long enough registered on here, Banjo, to know that it's more than just a hobby.
The allure of a gorgeous lady, and the pleasure guaranteed from the majority of encounters,
makes it very difficult to stop permanently.

[davidhaveone]

i have to agree wit you banjo, i think when you have met the best out there and met them on more than one ocassion the same high gets harder to achieve, when i started the highs were easy come by and my level of expectation was lower, now though i do it alot less now and dont find the experiences as good as a few years ago. also judging some girls by others is not always fair as you get use to a standard thats very hard match.

[Banjo]

I don't want to say I quit. As we all know, it's impossible to make a conscious decision to quit and then actually stick to it. But it was just my inkling today that I had been on my last punt.

In the past I'd no sooner be out the front door from one girl when I'd be either mentally arranging a repeat visit or moving on to thoughts of "who's next". That's not happening now so maybe another sign that I've lost interest.

Anyway ..... I haven't consciously retired, I think I'm taking a vacation of indefinite duration.

[MrNiceGuy2010]

I don't want to say I quit. As we all know, it's impossible to make a conscious decision to quit and then actually stick to it. But it was just my inkling today that I had been on my last punt.

In the past I'd no sooner be out the front door from one girl when I'd be either mentally arranging a repeat visit or moving on to thoughts of "who's next". That's not happening now so maybe another sign that I've lost interest.

Anyway ..... I haven't consciously retired, I think I'm taking a vacation of indefinite duration.

The only time i would go off them is when i'm in a relationship with someone

[SR71]

I don't want to say I quit. As we all know, it's impossible to make a conscious decision to quit and then actually stick to it. But it was just my inkling today that I had been on my last punt.

In the past I'd no sooner be out the front door from one girl when I'd be either mentally arranging a repeat visit or moving on to thoughts of "who's next". That's not happening now so maybe another sign that I've lost interest.

Anyway ..... I haven't consciously retired, I think I'm taking a vacation of indefinite duration.

It's all in the head Banjo me auld flower. Sometimes, for example in your case, money is the issue and you kinda feel guilty, after going through the appointment, thinking ''I could have used the money for something else'', but don't worry too much about it now.
Your punt is over and let it be a memory and move on Banjo. It will hurt you more if you think about it!

[rover]

General question, do you think it's possible to genuinely have had your fill of punting ? And how would you know when that moment arrives ?

I was out and about today on the punting trail. It's no secret I can't afford the life any more but recently found myself with a spare €100. So I took my time to choose wisely, I mean I spent days making a selection. Unfortunately it didn't work out and I didn't get what I wanted. Instead I ended up somewhere I hadn't planned and while there was nothing wrong with it I can't escape the fact that my scarce €100 has not gone where I wanted it to go.

And there is the thing. Despite the selection if girls around it is just so difficult to actually meet one and not feel that it wasn't really worth the effort. First you've to gather the money, then make your excuses as to where you were (and even then 99% of the time it's just not possible due to other commitments), then fight traffic to get there on time, then find the location, then find the apartment. Even before today's punt I was borderline as to whether I'd bother or not. Then I did it and regretted it.

So now I'm feeling right fed up with it all, I feel I've lived the life and don't have the energy or the will to bother with it any more. The payoff just doesn't justify the cost and effort any more.

Anyone else have similar feelings ?

All I can say is that the excitement of meeting a new escort is an overpowering addiction that I will never tire of, I will agree with you about the cash aspect, but wtf, you only live once.

[ryder]

The answer is no . Thats one of the reasons I'm going to athy this week to ask Cindy for her hand in marriage. If she says yes ,then you all are invited.