Possible to be fed up with visiting escorts ?

[Banjo]

General question, do you think it's possible to genuinely have had your fill of punting ? And how would you know when that moment arrives ?

I was out and about today on the punting trail. It's no secret I can't afford the life any more but recently found myself with a spare €100. So I took my time to choose wisely, I mean I spent days making a selection. Unfortunately it didn't work out and I didn't get what I wanted. Instead I ended up somewhere I hadn't planned and while there was nothing wrong with it I can't escape the fact that my scarce €100 has not gone where I wanted it to go.

And there is the thing. Despite the selection if girls around it is just so difficult to actually meet one and not feel that it wasn't really worth the effort. First you've to gather the money, then make your excuses as to where you were (and even then 99% of the time it's just not possible due to other commitments), then fight traffic to get there on time, then find the location, then find the apartment. Even before today's punt I was borderline as to whether I'd bother or not. Then I did it and regretted it.

So now I'm feeling right fed up with it all, I feel I've lived the life and don't have the energy or the will to bother with it any more. The payoff just doesn't justify the cost and effort any more.

Anyone else have similar feelings ?

[Dirkdilbert]

Basically agree. Everytime i meet someone say to myself right that wasnt all it should hace been, but then end up punting again several weeks later . Long time since i had a good feeling after a punt

[Cable87]

It's understandable Banjo, I'd say we all can/do get a bit burned out on things sometimes, even punting-- it can the same as everything else. I'd say that you're judt nor 'feeling it' anymore (or at least at the moment, then give it a rest for a bit. And even more so, don't go getting yourself into financial difficulties over this or anything else. Those 'rainy days' are upon most of us, and it's better to make sure we can cover ourselves for the basics before we go out spending hard-earned cash on the pure luxury that escorts are.

[warmcome]

the excitement and anticipation is a buzz alright,
although often during an appointment, i realize that i don't 'need' to be there.

[max california]

General question, do you think it's possible to genuinely have had your fill of punting ? And how would you know when that moment arrives ?

I was out and about today on the punting trail. It's no secret I can't afford the life any more but recently found myself with a spare €100. So I took my time to choose wisely, I mean I spent days making a selection. Unfortunately it didn't work out and I didn't get what I wanted. Instead I ended up somewhere I hadn't planned and while there was nothing wrong with it I can't escape the fact that my scarce €100 has not gone where I wanted it to go.

And there is the thing. Despite the selection if girls around it is just so difficult to actually meet one and not feel that it wasn't really worth the effort. First you've to gather the money, then make your excuses as to where you were (and even then 99% of the time it's just not possible due to other commitments), then fight traffic to get there on time, then find the location, then find the apartment. Even before today's punt I was borderline as to whether I'd bother or not. Then I did it and regretted it.

So now I'm feeling right fed up with it all, I feel I've lived the life and don't have the energy or the will to bother with it any more. The payoff just doesn't justify the cost and effort any more.

Anyone else have similar feelings ?

I don't know about getting fed up but I have noticed I've gotten a lot more selective about who I see. If you're really fed up maybe take a break for a few weeks. Don't be a stranger on the boards though!

[Banjo]

Thing is that I haven't been on a punt for months. Initially it was for financial reasons but even still I didn't feel like I was missing out on any major parts of life. Went back today and some old memories of how shitty it can be came flooding back and I found myself thinking "this is a mugs game this is".

I may be burnt out but I've a funny feeling I had my last punt today. As for the boards, I love the insight into this world so I wouldn't be giving that up as easily.

[jay67]

i wouldnt say im fed up.....but im at a point where i want to have some1 there for me when i get home and to be there for her,and id love to have kids 1 day.i still get the buzz form meeting escorts,but at this stage i want sumthing more.
i spent some time away and that just cemented those things further into my mind.......there are 2 ladies(1 i have visited a few times,and the other i always have wanted to see,but something always went wrong) i wish to meet before i hang my punting 'boots' up for good when i have that done.
and on top of all that the finance's just arent around anymore.

jay67

[Morpheus]

Thing is that I haven't been on a punt for months. Initially it was for financial reasons but even still I didn't feel like I was missing out on any major parts of life. Went back today and some old memories of how shitty it can be came flooding back and I found myself thinking "this is a mugs game this is".

I may be burnt out but I've a funny feeling I had my last punt today. As for the boards, I love the insight into this world so I wouldn't be giving that up as easily.

I think whenever an appointment doesn't go to plan or doesn't fulfill one's expectations, then one is bound to feel the way you did Banjo.

The fact that you haven't punted for awhile probably added to your feeling of disappointent. The anticipation and effort you put into this lead to an anticlimax when it didn't go the way you had hoped. I would have certainly felt the same.

This is one of the main reasons I tend to revisit a few ladies rather than seeing new girls - because I know what to expect and the said lady also knows what I like.

I don't think you're burnt out Banjo. Although another break may be the right thing. I'm glad to hear you're not quiting the forum, as many of us would miss your contributions.

[Wildthang]

General question, do you think it's possible to genuinely have had your fill of punting ? And how would you know when that moment arrives ?

I was out and about today on the punting trail. It's no secret I can't afford the life any more but recently found myself with a spare €100. So I took my time to choose wisely, I mean I spent days making a selection. Unfortunately it didn't work out and I didn't get what I wanted. Instead I ended up somewhere I hadn't planned and while there was nothing wrong with it I can't escape the fact that my scarce €100 has not gone where I wanted it to go.

And there is the thing. Despite the selection if girls around it is just so difficult to actually meet one and not feel that it wasn't really worth the effort. First you've to gather the money, then make your excuses as to where you were (and even then 99% of the time it's just not possible due to other commitments), then fight traffic to get there on time, then find the location, then find the apartment. Even before today's punt I was borderline as to whether I'd bother or not. Then I did it and regretted it.

So now I'm feeling right fed up with it all, I feel I've lived the life and don't have the energy or the will to bother with it any more. The payoff just doesn't justify the cost and effort any more.

Anyone else have similar feelings ?

Happens to everyone at one time or another! take a break banjo , step away.... no point doing somthing just for the sake of it. What alot of people dont realise is that pnuting is a very addictive hobby, I should know I have been doing it for a very long time.

Its like any addiction, it easy to get tht high at the beginning! but as time passes its becomes harder n harder to acheive that same buzz. So like everything else.........be it drink, drugs or whatever, we find ourselfs upping the amount we use in the hope that it will satisfy our hunger and want. But guess what ? it doesnt work in the long run and although it is a fun game to play , it is not a game everyone can play or should play.

That said! as has been written on many a thread on here when a guy comes on asking about punting and if he should take that step! the thing you have to remmeber! once a punter always a punter you never really stop. Instead you just take a break, some longer than others but one thing is for sure..... you will punt again (its only a matter of time)

We all chase tht adeventure in life! punting for me is a minimal risk sexual adventure in relaton to the ladies being profesional and not some bunny boiler you meet in a pub or club( been there done that).

If i was given the chance to go back to the very 1st punt and have the oppertunity to make that choice again... to punt or not to punt ? Hell i would do it all over again!
For i have had some truly mindblowing experiences during my punting times and have also had the chance and priviledge of meeting some of the most amazing ladies the world has to offer humanity.

You ladies make us punters feel like gods for a breif moment in time and for tht you should be applauded.

If your not enjoying somthing then ask yourself why you are doing it? if you dont believe your own answer! then your addicted. take a breath and step away.

[harry10]

Went a bit mad when I first started but have now settled down a bit. Make my appointments a good bit in advance which keeps the excitement going.
Like anything Banjo you can have too much of something. I am sure after a break, you'll find a special lady to get the juices flowing again.