Hey everyone,
Ok, I'm a first time poster and have something I need to get off my chest. I'm relatively young (under 25) and recently have considered going to see an escort. A big part of me sees it as something wrong (catholic guilt is what I attribute it too!) but another part of me sees it as ok.
The main reason I have been considering it is because I am going through a bad patch with women. I never considered myself a ladies man but always seemed to do ok for myself (i was always surprised if a girl I considered good looking was interested in me) but now I get nervous just being around an attractive girl. When I go to talk to one in a bar or club I freeze up, get all sweaty and have no idea what to say or start a conversation. I usually end up drinking more than I should to boost my courage but all this does is make me act like a fool and turns women off immediately.
So recently I've been considering going to see one of the lovely ladies here in order to boost my confidence but I'm not so sure if its the right thing to do.
Sorry if this sounds like a "woe is me"letter but I was just wondering if anyone here has ever felt the same and if so, how they dealt with it. Any and all advice is welcome