Do you feel that it is necessary to comment on an escort's weight?

[The Hobbyist]

Folks,

WTB69's thread about how he forgot to put the word "not" before "overweight" got me thinking.

Do you feel that it is necessary to comment on an escort's weight? I find making such references to be abhorrent. I am not referring to just reviews, but in the forums, in the chat room, anywhere...

Given the nature of the business, the ladies have so much to contend with. They are constantly trying to look their best at being sexy. Making sure the make-up is just right. Constantly showering and being fresh. Trying to figure out what outfit to wear. The list goes on...

All those things can be adjusted, BUT an escort cannot just change their weight. Negative comments about weight are hurtful...plain and simple.




Your thoughts?

Regards.

[wanted the best 69]

with hind sight i believe i should zipped my mouth, but i was making a point and in truth hobbs you right ,unless it is extremely different that the photos

[dave1dave]

I've only commented on an escorts weight once, and in that case it was to point out that the escort had a curvier shape than the photos portrayed, in a good way as the photos at the time made her look a little too skinny.

But negative comments just for the sake of it are just rude.

That being said, if an escorts profile and profile pictures portray her as being say a size 8. And the lady is infect a size 16 then I believe it warrants comment, but these things can be done in an appropriate manner.

[anon361]

I agree, I wouldn't comment negatively about a ladies size as I am well aware we all have different tastes but I would comment in a review if the picture shows a size 8-10 and she is really a 12-14.

[Morpheus]

Unfortunately being the shallow pervert that I am, a lady's "dress size" actually does matter to me. Profile photos don't always represent this clearly.

Everyman has his preference - and some like skinny girls and others like girls with a fuller figure. And client may want to know this in advance.

So yes, I do find it useful when a reviewer does comment on a lady's "dress size" particularly if he felt he had got a different impression from the pics.

However, this can be done politely and subtley. Expressions like 'full figured' or 'ultra slim' are two examples of what I feel would be acceptable (IMHO).


I take the Hobbyist's point that the ladies have enough to put up with, but unfortunately for many punters (such as myself), a lady's figure is an important part of the attraction (or blind lust).

[Milla]

Hobby, my dear! The appointment it`s all about looking fresh, juicy and a really sexy and hot girl! My best perfume and make up are a plus...The weight it`s just a matter of the fact Milla

[anon361]

I actually slightly regret the way I worded this in one of my reviews but at the same time it was an honest account of the lady and reviews are for clients.

Images are her but well taken, attractive looking with a fresh face but has a little extra weight.

I will ad it was a positive review as overall she was great..

[FunnyName]

BUT an escort cannot just change their weight.

Really? What about a healthy diet and a bit of exercise, could that help them loose weight?

I know people who have been fat since a young child, they're lads though... and it seems to be more acceptable to insult a lad when it comes to weight. Sure a lad probably insults himself when it comes to weight as they are totally aware that they might be over weight. But the guy I know, got sick of it, started exercising and eating a healthy diet and he looks great now! Hes so much happier/healthier in mind and body.

With a girl it's totally different, unacceptable to call a lady fat... especially if you wanna get in her pants. Or if she's a mate. Being supportive is a far better option, you can't force someone to change diet/exercise. They have to make the decision themselves!

So yeah calling a lady fat isn't a nice thing. But when it comes to reviews and take into context that 'punters' are visiting escorts because they are attracted to them. Maybe they like a bit of weight or an extra few pounds or maybe they like extremely thin/toned ladies. Its down to opinion! Whatever floats your boat or whatever. So if a lady looks good in her photos, she has a bit of cushion for the pushion... then you show up, the pics turn out to be 1-2 years old and she's much bigger. You can't get turned on etc. Well then a review or mentioning this can prevent other customers from experiencing the same issue!

I don't go around calling ladies fat... I'd be faster to judge myself before anyone else! but that's my 2 cents :P

[gentelmandave]

Folks,

WTB69's thread about how he forgot to put the word "not" before "overweight" got me thinking.

Do you feel that it is necessary to comment on an escort's weight? I find making such references to be abhorrent. I am not referring to just reviews, but in the forums, in the chat room, anywhere...

Given the nature of the business, the ladies have so much to contend with. They are constantly trying to look their best at being sexy. Making sure the make-up is just right. Constantly showering and being fresh. Trying to figure out what outfit to wear. The list goes on...

All those things can be adjusted, BUT an escort cannot just change their weight. Negative comments about weight are hurtful...plain and simple.




Your thoughts?

Regards.

I dont think its necessary to comment on a girls apperence or weight? have you not looked at her profile pictures?? before you decided to ring her and book an appointment. And the to put that in your review is plain rude in my opinion. Walk away at the start if your not happy about any girls apperance if you feel its different to her Profile.

[harry10]

I suppose the fairest thing to do would be mention that her photos weren't accurate.
Not being of slim build myself I am glad they're not commenting on me.