The real me

[Stephanie]

Charlie,

"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it"

Great signature

[Lucy Chambers]

I want u to look at the bold underline,if you had read the previous comments in this threads like u have stated to have done you would have your answer to that question why i did not take it up with the mods,I was asked in this thread tonight if i wanted to take it up with a mod and i publicy decline the over,and in other comments to other users in this same thread that u have seemed to have read that i did not take it up with the escort in chat.I did whisper to her in chat where i was accused of being a lair a arselicker and being infatuated with army girl(who i have only talked to in chat maybe once).After a tense whsiper chat it was agreed that things where good between use and that everthing was ok,and then the next day the escort in question has a thread where she is saying that some ei members are arselicker and looking for people to vote in a poll to see how nice she is.

As for me asking people to take my side,if you have read the thread like u said u had u would see that i have never asked anyone to take my side.

And yes the matter can be closed as long as i don't have to keep reponding to comments from another Alpha Male from the pack giving his half arsed opinion on a matter that he really has no clue about whatsoever.

Calm down, this is all getting a bit silly now. I didnt realise you meant an escort when I asked you who said that to you, I thought you meant a fellow poster. I think this matter should have been dropped when it happened. If not, then you should both give as good as you get so, not do this.

[charlie123]

Charlie,

"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it"

Great signature

thank u lovely

[Mousey]

I call bullshit on this whole thread.

Firstly, I am assuming that this has something to do with Shirley. Reading the thread, it appears that she and the OP had an unfriendly conversation about it in the chatroom, and the OP has put up this thread in response.

Bullshit.

Mr"nice"guy - if you lose an argument with someone in chat, you suck it up, shrug and get on with your real life. You remember real life, right? It's the whole thing that's going on when you're not on the Internet arguing with other people.

But what you have done is posted a thread on the message boards seeking sympathy. When users paul_m, DubLad, and doodlebug called you on it, you responded by basically telling them to not post on this thread. What - do you only want people to post on this thread who agree with whatever you say and go "there there, she's obviously a horrible person"?

Bullshit.

You should be infracted for bringing an argument from chat into the boards (mods, what do you have to say about this?), and rather than coming across as being a nice guy, you come across as a tell-tale snitchey snide person, whining on the Internet to people you have not met and do not know, seeking support trying to get another person into trouble, and telling people who don't agree with you to get lost.

Bullshit.

This thread is cynical, it's crass, and it should be closed.

[samlad]

I do think that this little drama has been stretched to the point of ridiculous now.

The simpliest thing to do is report any qualms to me, Nicole or one of the mods. Usually what ends up happening is that people start making ambigous points, an argument between a group of people breaks out and people get infracted or banned.

Let me reitterate here:

1) If you have suspicions about a particular poster, let one of the staff know. We can keep an eye on things.
2) Don't take the law into your own hands and start threads were comments start getting personal; what often happens is that the person who thinks they are gradually 'exposing' someone more often than not end up recieving the infraction or ban simply because we haven't got a clue what the real intention behind things are.
3) Remember that the managers and mods aren't mind readers, nor do we always pick up on every single thing that is posted on the 18,000+ threads that are currently on the boards. Sometimes you do actually have to steer us in the right direction.
4) Don't start 'victim' threads or threads to try to take the 'Big Brother' approach, whereby somebody says, 'this isn't the real me' in a futile attempt to save one's reputation. Believe it or not, there are people that a) don't actually care and b) will take this as an opportunity to shit stir.
5) Just report concerns or suspicions to a mod or manager!

I'm closing this thread, now knowing the full intentions behind it.