Apologies to everyone

[hairfreak07]

Hairfreak- I'm going to give you the benefit of doubt & offer a few observations.
Sorry to hear of the abuse you suffered- some narrow minded people are just scumbags, but as you're clearly aware it's not representative of broader Irish society. That said, there is no excuse for trying to damage a girls reputation in the matter that you attempted, even if you felt you were goaded into it.

I must admit though, that it seems a little strange (given your background & that you've been on EI over a year) that you found it surprising that an escort from the same culture wouldn't see you?! ( Little piece of trivia for the broader audience- it's an open secret that east asian providers tend to shy away from men of their own culture for obvious reasons- the community is small, many of them want to get married in the future yada yada). I left IRL quite a while back & was aware then.. the same thing happens here in New York, there are several large Korean oufits & the girls don't see Korean clients & plenty of escorts ( of all ethnic backgrounds) choose not to see certain guys as a matter of choice- to bandy around the term 'racism' isn't relevant here, it's about the woman's choice/comfort level etc.
HF- Perhaps you're relatively new to all this stuff & a bit sheltered. Nice to see your apology, suggest u learn from this episode & move on bro!

Hi Frank,

I met an asian lady on the night of Sunday 21/08/2011 in Dublin, she told me that she has been here 2 weeks and ALL her clients have been Asian. She came from the same city too. I swear to god on my mothers name. I can identify the lady to the site managers and they can verify themselves, if necessary. No names mentioned in public.


If a coloured man walks in to a restaurant, almost full house, but was refused service and given the reason he's coloured, nothing else. Would he feel discriminated against? It was exactly how I felt Thursday and Friday. Ms. X informed me we cannot meet because I'm asian (not because she only takes Caucasian clients, 2 different things..). I interpreted the message from a discrimination perspective (I thought she would look forward to it because we share the same ethnicity) but not from a private personal perspective. I couldn't sleep till 2am and woke up 4 times that night because of it (something for some of you to cheer about..). Yesterday I lost my head and allowed my emotions to overcome my judgement.


Honestly ask yourself. Have you ever lost your cool and did/said something you shouldn't have? Then you apologized to the relevant people after realizing you were wrong? And were you forgiven? I've pretty sure you have, we all have. Fine if you think I'm malicious and disgusting, but I know I'm not, my friends and families knows I'm not. Either way it doesn't make a difference if you accept this apology or not. I'm truly sorry for what I've done, I did what I can to ask for your forgiveness and there's nothing more I can say. I do not wish to continue with this tug of war as no matter what I say, some people will always take the opposite meaning and exaggerate/dramatize. Some say a criminal will always be a criminal, I believe it's true but only to a certain extent.

All the best,

Regards,

HF07

[Stephanie]

I have as usual, arrived late to the party.
I am in agreement with Anon (Gulp) and Stephanie on this one. No amount of racial discrimination is an excuse for such shabby behaviour towards any one here on the boards escort or otherwise. At least she was decent enough to tell you the reason, maybe in the future she may not wish to do this, some people can't handle the truth.

Thank you Violette I was feeling so lonely there for a while..lol.

Persons (may they be male or female) like this man appears to be scare me: if they don't get what they have their heart set on,

they become vindictive.. Good girl, didn't take the booking..

As everybody advised him on the original thread, he should have just shaken it off and moved on..

Instead very cleverly he changed the focus from his own misdeeds to the issue of racism.. Huh ??

I think I'm done

[anon361]

I have as usual, arrived late to the party.
I am in agreement with Anon (Gulp) and Stephanie on this one. No amount of racial discrimination is an excuse for such shabby behaviour towards any one here on the boards escort or otherwise. At least she was decent enough to tell you the reason, maybe in the future she may not wish to do this, some people can't handle the truth.

You're cutting me deep

[Jackdaniel]

A song that sums up my mood..."Let it be" by the Beatles...ooops wrong thread!

[UKHeather]

**** quote removed*****

Why is this disgusting post still here?

[Lilian]

Then you apologized to the relevant people after realizing you were wrong? And were you forgiven? I've pretty sure you have, we all have. Fine if you think I'm malicious and disgusting, but I know I'm not, my friends and families knows I'm not. Either way it doesn't make a difference if you accept this apology or not. I'm truly sorry for what I've done, I did what I can to ask for your forgiveness and there's nothing more I can say.

All the best,

Regards,

HF07

All you do is lamenting , I sincerly doubt you are truly sorry ! Let me ask you this : Have you actually apologized to the lady in question ? THAT would be the relevant person to apologize , we are just bystanders who happen to be bothered by your behaviour here !
Then you go ahead and say you actually dont care if you are forgiven or not , god you sound like sulking 3-year-old , if you dont care why are you still trying to explain/ justify your behaviour ?
Move on and mature ,the world will not stop turning over this ...

[Jackdaniel]

All you do is lamenting , I sincerly doubt you are truly sorry ! Let me ask you this : Have you actually apologized to the lady in question ? THAT would be the relevant person to apologize , we are just bystanders who happen to be bothered by your behaviour here !
Then you go ahead and say you actually dont care if you are forgiven or not , god you sound like sulking 3-year-old , if you dont care why are you still trying to explain/ justify your behaviour ?
Move on and mature ,the world will not stop turning over this ...

Lilian, will you please stop popping up and making me read your profile Hun!

[Lilian]

Lilian, will you please stop popping up and making me read your profile Hun!

Ehm ... NO ... Enjoy

[Violette]

You're cutting me deep

Oh come now, you are tougher than this.