***** honest opinions ******

[Forrest]

At least MissX was trying to be honest in her reason for not wanting to proceed with the appointment.
She could have said she was busy and suggest you call back some other, and then just block your number.

I have just remembered an escort from a couple of years ago who actually called herself MissX.
I met her a couple of times and we had a good time, then she 'stood me up' so to speak, as we
agreed a time, I went to the location, then she didn't answer her phone, so I had a wasted journey.
We exchanged pms a few days later, and she explained that a family emergency had come up and she
dropped everything to deal with it. We agreed another appointment and she did the same again.
When I posted a warning thread that she was 'unreliable' she accused me of being a man scorned,
because I couldn't get another appointment with her.
She obviously had a reason for not wanting to meet me again, but didn't have the decency to tell me
and let me waste time going to her location(twice) for an appointment that wasn't going to take place.
Move on, there's plenty of other sexy ladies to enjoy.

[hairfreak07]

At least MissX was trying to be honest in her reason for not wanting to proceed with the appointment.
She could have said she was busy and suggest you call back some other, and then just block your number.
Don't look for a problem where there is none.

The escorts privacy and security are very important in this business, as is the client's.
Respect and accept that and you will enjoy many encounters with other escorts.

Yes what you said on security is true. I gave my words to Miss Cherri on total privacy but it made no difference.

As mentioned before, I've honoured every appointment I made, always showed up. I stayed and paid whether I fancied the girl or not. It's my respect and commitment for the ladies.

I've always been polite, respectful to everyone, to Ms Cherri. I did nothing wrong and I didn't deserve this. I will try enjoy the companionship with rest of the ladies on my list before putting an end to punting by the end of the year. Would rather spend the €3,000-4,000 euros on something I deserve.

It's a lost battle for me as everyone's looking out for each other to survive, to keep the ladies working so they can keep punting. That's what I thought so in the first place, at least I tried.

Thanks everyone for your input.

All the best,

HF07

[hairfreak07]

That would have been a waste of her time and yours, and defeated the object as you would have physically met her.

Appointment made on Tuesday for Friday morning, cancelled Thursday night. It's my time that's wasted here.

[anon361]

So this makes it OK for her to waste my time?? Appointment made Tuesday for Friday morning, cancelled Thursday night.

In fairness, what time did she waste, a couple of minutes and a phone call or 2, I agree with the others here, you need to let it go and move on, the lady in question didn't do anything wrong, in fact she done everything right for the right reasons, there are a lot of ladies that wouldn't have been as professional about it as she was, honesty in this job can only be commended..

[Forrest]

I've always been polite, respectful to everyone, to Ms Cherri. I did nothing wrong and I didn't deserve this. It's a lost battle for me as everyone's looking out for each other to survive, to keep the ladies working so
they can keep punting. HF07

I have met Ms Cherri also and she is a very genuine lady.
If she felt uncomfortable about it, then she shouldn't proceed.
No one has said you did anything wrong, but that's life.
Escorts have the right to say no and we have to accept it
whether we like it or not.

[hairfreak07]

I have just remembered an escort from a couple of years ago who actually called herself MissX.
I met her a couple of times and we had a good time, then she 'stood me up' so to speak, as we
agreed a time, I went to the location, then she didn't answer her phone, so I had a wasted journey.
We exchanged pms a few days later, and she explained that a family emergency had come up and she
dropped everything to deal with it. We agreed another appointment and she did the same again.
When I posted a warning thread that she was 'unreliable' she accused me of being a man scorned,
because I couldn't get another appointment with her.
She obviously had a reason for not wanting to meet me again, but didn't have the decency to tell me
and let me waste time going to her location(twice) for an appointment that wasn't going to take place.
Move on, there's plenty of other sexy ladies to enjoy.

Thanks for sharing your experience sir, I'm moving on now. Please, do me a favour. Find me an asian lady with good personality and good English like Ms Cherri.

[hairfreak07]

I have met Ms Cherri also and she is a very genuine lady.
If she felt uncomfortable about it, then she shouldn't proceed.
No one has said you did anything wrong, but that's life.
Escorts have the right to say no and we have to accept it
whether we like it or not.

"Escorts have the right to say no and we have to accept it." - Yes I have accepted it because there isn't any other options. Most the time it's you pay, then they decided if the services advertised is available or not. What rights do clients have?

"I have met Ms Cherri also and she is a very genuine lady." - yes i'll be genuine to anyone giving me €230/hour.

"No one has said you did anything wrong, but that's life." - I won't accept this because we're in control of our lives and the decisions we make. Some things can be created or avoided.

[Forrest]

Thanks for sharing your experience sir, I'm moving on now.
Please, do me a favour. Find me an asian lady with good personality and good English like Ms Cherri.

Wish I could help, but I have only ever met 3 Asian escorts, and SweetCherri is the only one of those three still active.

Good luck with your search though.

[hairfreak07]

In fairness, what time did she waste, a couple of minutes and a phone call or 2, I agree with the others here, you need to let it go and move on, the lady in question didn't do anything wrong, in fact she done everything right for the right reasons, there are a lot of ladies that wouldn't have been as professional about it as she was, honesty in this job can only be commended..

Ms. Cherri should have declined the appointment in the first place. That's how I see it.

Imagine if you're looking to buy a car, you go to a dealer and place an order. When the time comes and you're all happy to pick it up, the dealer tells you no I don't want to sell it to you. Well, I presume you would agree that the dealer did nothing wrong either cause it's his choice to be selling cars to whoever he wants, whenever he wants.. Right??

[JAMESCORK]

Why do I sense an element of revenge here rather then a plea for honest opinion. I feel it was unfortunate and unecessary for the escort to have been identified.

Your honest opinions on that then.