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    I rang a lady (let's call her miss X) on Tuesday night to make an appointment for 11am this morning. She said it should be ok but I was advised it would be better if I ring back the evening before or on the day to confirm. So, I was in contact last night but miss X cancelled the meeting.

    The reason was she would feel uncomfortable to offer her service because we share the same race/nationality. It was very upsetting as I felt a victim of discrimination, especially from another person of my kind.


    Can someone please share with me their honest opinion?


    HK07

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    You may feel that way but best to put it behind you , and look for another escort .: doc
    Never mistake kindness for weakness .: doc

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    Quote Originally Posted by hairfreak07 View Post
    I rang a lady (let's call her miss X) on Tuesday night to make an appointment for 11am this morning. She said it should be ok but I was advised it would be better if I ring back the evening before or on the day to confirm. So, I was in contact last night but miss X cancelled the meeting.

    The reason was she would feel uncomfortable to offer her service because we share the same race/nationality. It was very upsetting as I felt a victim of discrimination, especially from another person of my kind.


    Can someone please share with me their honest opinion?


    HK07
    It is understandably upsetting, but you have to accept her decision. It's her body at the end of the day and normal society rules don't apply in this game.

    Just choose someone else ( who you know is independent ) and move on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dr love View Post
    You may feel that way but best to put it behind you , and look for another escort .: doc
    Well sad Dr love

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    Quote Originally Posted by kelly90 View Post
    Well sad Dr love
    Thank you kelly .: doc xx
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    Quote Originally Posted by hairfreak07 View Post
    I rang a lady (let's call her miss X) on Tuesday night to make an appointment for 11am this morning. She said it should be ok but I was advised it would be better if I ring back the evening before or on the day to confirm. So, I was in contact last night but miss X cancelled the meeting.

    The reason was she would feel uncomfortable to offer her service because we share the same race/nationality. It was very upsetting as I felt a victim of discrimination, especially from another person of my kind.


    Can someone please share with me their honest opinion?


    HK07
    Hi dear
    I would say to u that u dont must to take things like this,if u have ure right to choose an escort they have the right too to choose their custumers no metter what the reason is u have to accept itlife is like this,and every human has different thoughts and mentality,so u have to accept it and just be proud of ureself and of ure nationality dont care about people think about utake care

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    My honest opinion u should be thanksfull i always think if u cannot give the best to any client better to cancel the appointment and not see the person. The same way some of u client think a girl is not ur cup of tea we may have this same feeling toward some guess. After all we are human. And many time take it as personal. For me they should not because u dont meet escort to become friend u just meet her for a small part of sexy time.

    I personnaly dont meet any french client not because i dont like them simply if i do my best to hide myself to my loved ones about this side of my life it is not to risk any guy who may found out, i always believe the world can be a small place

    So my dear guy my honest opinion get over it it is not the end of the life many others ladies available to meet with different ethnicity and nationality.

    And for discrimination they will always be an discrimation we like it or not in both way, escorts and clients way.

    So enjoy ur rest of the day,
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    simple BOTH have rights and in her case she was honest to you which you should thank her for,after all you were spared at best a very forced meeting, move on but thank her she saved you a possile bad meeting
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    I think Sasha is probably right, that the escort is not willing to take the risk that the two of you might know each other, or might know people in common, and people back home might find out what she does. I think a lot of escorts refuse to see people from their home country for this reason. It's probably not discrimination, just caution.

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    Thank you for you kind words Kelly, it is much appreciated.

    I accept her decision, how can I not.. I'm proud of who I am, always. My colour, my size, my culture, my language. I'm smart, I'm a high achiever in both career and in sport. It is easy for others to say get over it but this lady has 83 reviews up to date with 99% positive. I'm not avail of the best service because of my nationality..? I thought you're suppose to help your own people..?


    Thank you also Sasha for your opinion. I've met ladies before who are not the girl on the verified photo, way over weight, bad skin, face etc. But I've always respected the lady, the business and stayed because I honour the appointment. I've been looking to meet this lady for a year, since I joined EI. She is the person I wanted to meet the most.

    Yes discrimination happens every day, but I'm disappointed to be discriminated by the best, the most generous and professional lady on EI. If there're certain types or colour clients you're not willing to take, please mention it on the profile.

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