Sex....Morality....Ethics and all that jazz

[Notatwork]

The lady that gets me will be very lucky in some ways and cursing her luck in others. What I find fascinating is guys are sort of surprised when things wane in marriage like some god of badness has descended upon them. Do guys not realize that marriage is a life long deal and like everything else things will wane? Isnt that the ultimate test of ones love for another? Keeping the issue alive? Visiting escorts as far as Im concerned can easily cause a further drift in the marriage as the issue on the surface is satisfied (the sex) but the real underlying issues that may create problems will linger on ,beneath the surface, creating further barriers within the marriage. Everything looses its sparkle in life. Everything. Its up to each of us to reignite that sparkle ,assuming we want to.

In any event my head is splitting in two from a night of drinking. Stale air and smelly farts are the way to go here this Sunday. I will go and lie down now but if I dont return, Im either banned or have died in my sleep.

Im more coherent when Im drunk,
Westside.

PS pssst Its me, sssssssssssh told tell anyone.

You just said it....trying to reignite.....thats the million dollar question how......i am married to a complete frigid....useless
Her idea of looking after my needs are ironing my shirts...she hasnt a clue!

[gbnl]

Why do you assume it's a woman? That is just rude and ignorant. There are plenty men who do not cheat or visit prostitutes. Men who do are in the minority!

i was joking heather, hence the 'lol'. i thought the debate was getting a bit heated...so was trying to lighten the mood,sorry if any1 took offence.
we'r all adults here and know(or should know)the difference between right and wrong.but whats right for some may not be for others.i think we should just respect each others choices/opinions.

[UKHeather]

hi Heather,

i'm a bit surprised at your thoughts on this, given that you do it. (respect your point of view though)
where do the prostitutes themselves stand morally?

Hi WC
I see myself as exploiting the men who are willing to pay to have sex with me. After all, it's all on my terms.

[UKHeather]

i was joking heather, hence the 'lol'. i thought the debate was getting a bit heated...so was trying to lighten the mood,sorry if any1 took offence.
we'r all adults here and know(or should know)the difference between right and wrong.but whats right for some may not be for others.i think we should just respect each others choices/opinions.

No need for apologies!
I do respect their opinions. No offence taken. I laugh at some of the justifications though

[UKHeather]

WoW, never seen so many Ruhama wannabies posting in the same place

I see escorts because I want to, couldn't give a damn what any of you with your high principles think or care about it and should any of my family find out I definitely won't be coming on here discussing it with any of you principled lot..

In my case anon, I was not taking a high principle stance. I was talking about my opinion that men who see prostitutes do not respect women. I put my point forward that I would not find it acceptable for a partner to do it.

[MrFussy]

no one will ever know that you have seen prossies before for fuck sake, women are way more tarnished than men, once a prossie always a prossie

You are one prized wanker...

[paul_m]

why was Eugee banned?

[Doozer]

why was Eugee banned?

he was a previously banned user

[Forrest]

No Lucy. I wouldn't. I need a man who has respect for women.
I don't think men who see prostitutes have that. They think they do!.. but they don't, not really x

I know you like to speak your mind Heather, but saying that men that visit escorts don't respect women
is a very broad generalisation.

Hi WC
I see myself as exploiting the men who are willing to pay to have sex with me. After all, it's all on my terms.

Interesting point of view. I have never felt exploited by the escorts I have visited as I was happy
to pay for their time and companionship.

[robijntje]

Hi WC
I see myself as exploiting the men who are willing to pay to have sex with me. After all, it's all on my terms.

You are against it, yet you take advantage of it. In other words, you have principles, yet you tarnish them in order to get some money.

How would you expect someone to respect you if you don't even respect yourself?

You ask, or better demand respect from those that you refuse to respect. You try to justify the things you do in order to make yourself feel better. Well, keep listening to those voices, I'm just glad we won't ever have to meet.

Ever.