Sex....Morality....Ethics and all that jazz

[ksteve]

Clients all have individual circumstances and reasons.
However, I know I could NEVER be with a man who saw prostitutes.

No, I wouldn't. However, if I had a partner who was regularly seeing prostitutes, I would know he/we had a problem and would have to look at the relationship.

Thats seems like quite a liberal stance in fact. Many women would dump their man straight off. if they discovered he regularly visits escorts.

[ksteve]

i think if your in a realationship and having babies or trying for babies then you should not see escorts

if you engaged and going to get married and see escorts then id call of the marriage, as if one is to get married they should be completely in love and couldnt even think of any body else if this does not exist then way get married

if your in a happy marrage and getting sex etc then i think you should not see escorts

but you should see escorts if
marriage is dead
no sex in marriage for wot ever reason
widowed seperated

just my thoughts

Phew !! Thanks Kelly.

[robijntje]

I had a discussion with someone not too long ago about this exact topic. I somehow can understand (but don't like) married men seeing escorts, I can understand single people seeing escorts, but what I don't understand are people that are in short-term relationships (only been together for a few months) that see escorts, like they were still single... Then there's something wrong in the relationship, even if it's just sexual... Go look for someone that does satisfy you or don't see anyone at all, but to me it's like these people want to have the best of both worlds and do not (maybe refuse to?) make a choice, choices are there for us all to make and this is another one... How can you honestly say to your girlfriend 'I love you' when you've been with a woman an hour before that?

People always talk about 'respecting the escorts', and while I do agree with that, shouldn't you first look at respecting those that are closest to you, especially the one you proclaim to love?

Guess I'm just old fashioned in this way... Hell, I even have trouble going like 'here's your money, let's get on with it...' I can't stop myself from thinking 'does she actually like this? Would she have sex with me if I wouldn't have paid her?'

I'm just not cut out to be a no-nonsense 'punter'...

[UKHeather]

Thats seems like quite a liberal stance in fact. Many women would dump their man straight off. if they discovered he regularly visits escorts.

If I was with someone a long time and had children then I would owe it to my family to consider things. You said if it had happened a couple of times..
I would have to look at why it happened, but at the end of the day I can't see it working out. It's not a good situation is it.

[UKHeather]

To play Devils Advocate, what if you went through the menopause and sex was the last thing you wanted to do...would you allow it then? Knowing what you know and all that?

No Lucy. I wouldn't. I need a man who has respect for women. I don't think men who see prostitutes have that. They think they do!.. but they don't, not really x

[robijntje]

I need a man who has respect for women. I don't think men who see prostitutes have that. They think they do!.. but they don't, not really x

And why is that?

[ksteve]

No Lucy. I wouldn't. I need a man who has respect for women. I don't think men who see prostitutes have that. They think they do!.. but they don't, not really x

I'm sorry you feel like that Heather and from a male perspective I wholly disagree with you -- but I would say that wouldnt I ?
However, I much prefer to read posts from escorts speaking from the heart than reading ' all sweetness and light '.

[Lucy Chambers]

No Lucy. I wouldn't. I need a man who has respect for women. I don't think men who see prostitutes have that. They think they do!.. but they don't, not really x

Well that shut me up

[warmcome]

No Lucy. I wouldn't. I need a man who has respect for women. I don't think men who see prostitutes have that. They think they do!.. but they don't, not really x

thinking is not knowing, Heather. the answer to this is very simple.
when you possess a ballbag, (everyday filling with seed) your hormones are the opposite of the other sex.
this affects everything about how you think and see the world. i suppose a man has
to be true to this physiology first?

[ksteve]

thinking is not knowing, Heather. the answer to this is very simple.
when you possess a ballbag, (everyday filling with seed) your hormones are the opposite of the other sex.
this affects everything about how you think and see the world. i suppose a man has
to be true to this physiology first?

Nice try Warmcome ! It's not our fault, in fact its practically our obligation --- good one !!