Sex....Morality....Ethics and all that jazz

[Alec Horan]

Someone having a baby and someone asks if they will still see escorts. So it gets me thinking about what you folk think.


When is it OK to see an escort ?


As was asked do you have to be single ? Is it OK when on a stag or off on holidays ?

Are you happy for your partner to see an escort? and if so is once a year OK ? would it bother you if they saw them on a daily basis ?

How do you feel ?

[wakka]

Personally I would only ever see an escort it I was single. I couldn't cheat on my wife/partner. But thats me and everyone is different, I certainly wouldn't judge anybody!!

[Alec Horan]

Personally I would only ever see an escort it I was single. I couldn't cheat on my wife/partner. But thats me and everyone is different, I certainly wouldn't judge anybody!!

I judge everybody !

[wakka]

I judge everybody !

lol---fair enough

[UKHeather]

Clients all have individual circumstances and reasons.
However, I know I could NEVER be with a man who saw prostitutes.

[JAMESCORK]

Clients all have individual circumstances and reasons.
However, I know I could NEVER be with a man who saw prostitutes.

Now theres a show stopper if ever i saw one....

[ksteve]

Clients all have individual circumstances and reasons.
However, I know I could NEVER be with a man who saw prostitutes.

Never, say Never Heather ! I have no doubt that many ladies say and believe the same thing but unbeknownst to them , they could and do live with them. Accordingly,keeping knowledge of these indiscretions hidden is very important to most such clients.

If you thought you were very happily married with kids to a nice man for a significant period of time but discovered over the years he had booked not more than two escorts whilst on say trips with the lads, would you permanently end your relationship with him ?

[blue8671]

I see escorts for the simple reason that at home i don't have a sexual relationship with my wife, I love her a great deal and for this reason don't pressure her to have sex when she has made it clear that she neither enjoys it or has any desire for any form of sexual contact. SO faced with the choice of a affair in which i have no interest due to the emotional commitment that requires so i decided that visiting a escort was my best solution, it may seem very selfish to do this knowing I'm in a relationship but the only thing that is missing in my marriage is the sexual side and I'm not going to give up a otherwise happy home life just because i don't get one thing here.

Someone having a baby and someone asks if they will still see escorts. So it gets me thinking about what you folk think.


When is it OK to see an escort ?


As was asked do you have to be single ? Is it OK when on a stag or off on holidays ?

Are you happy for your partner to see an escort? and if so is once a year OK ? would it bother you if they saw them on a daily basis ?

How do you feel ?

[Eugee]

I see escorts for the simple reason that at home i don't have a sexual relationship with my wife, I love her a great deal and for this reason don't pressure her to have sex when she has made it clear that she neither enjoys it or has any desire for any form of sexual contact. SO faced with the choice of a affair in which i have no interest due to the emotional commitment that requires so i decided that visiting a escort was my best solution, it may seem very selfish to do this knowing I'm in a relationship but the only thing that is missing in my marriage is the sexual side and I'm not going to give up a otherwise happy home life just because i don't get one thing here.

So why not just say tough shit? I cant do certain things with my wife but Im not risking putting this womans well being at risk. Whats wrong with saying that? An affair is only an excuse and the same thing only the means to achieve both differ.