Question for the ladies?

[anon361]

With all the recent revelations about ladies being forced to work for pimps I am very disheartened with the knowledge I have inadvertently visited some of these girls. As a client we are very much in the dark in relation to the inner workings of this industry and it is very hard for us to truly know who is independent and those that aren't, especially if they have it well disguised. A few ladies have spoken out saying why as clients do we visit these ladies but as explained if we are in the dark how are we to know? so I ask, are there any ladies willing to give advice if I ask if a lady is independent or not, in private, anonymous and confidential of course? I have no ladies in mind at the moment but in the future if possible?
PMs are most appreciated !

[dave1dave]

I know how you feel Anon, I haven't seen any of the ladies I've seen mentioned in threads about this.
But hand on heart I couldn't say for sure that I haven't seen someone in this situation. It's a horrible feeling to think that I might have.
But how are we to know for sure ? I rarely rush into a decision on seeing someone new, and always read and re read reviews. I also look for other things such as having their own website, forum activity ect.. But I realise these things can also mean nothing.
So as you say any advise always welcome.

[mellors]

An excellent post Anon. As clients we really are in the dark,except where its blatantly obvious.Would an escort really tell a client the whole truth ? I too try to research who i am seeing and hope i pick escorts who are truely independent. Rather than PM, it would be very beneficial if escorts were to reply to this thread openly on the forum.

[anon361]

An excellent post Anon. As clients we really are in the dark,except where its blatantly obvious.Would an escort really tell a client the whole truth ? I too try to research who i am seeing and hope i pick escorts who are truely independent. Rather than PM, it would be very beneficial if escorts were to reply to this thread openly on the forum.

Thanks, I really hope some ladies do respond, together if we are all proactive in helping each other we hopefully can make a difference and if it turns even one pimp away from this trade by a downturn in his business than that's a win for us all.

[sweet rebeka]

With all the recent revelations about ladies being forced to work for pimps I am very disheartened with the knowledge I have inadvertently visited some of these girls. As a client we are very much in the dark in relation to the inner workings of this industry and it is very hard for us to truly know who is independent and those that aren't, especially if they have it well disguised. A few ladies have spoken out saying why as clients do we visit these ladies but as explained if we are in the dark how are we to know? so I ask, are there any ladies willing to give advice if I ask if a lady is independent or not, in private, anonymous and confidential of course? I have no ladies in mind at the moment but in the future if possible?
PMs are most appreciated !

i think if an escort is really forced to do this,she won't be so stupid to accept it. so,in my opinion,nobody is forced to do anything. if you want to do it ,you do it and choose how to do it. and when garda is coming, i think they prefer to say that were forced,and like that the police let them go,as they are just victims. i will never think that a girl comes to work like an escort without know where she's coming and if she agree to work for somebody,or give a part of her money,is just because she accept it. maybe i am wrong,but this is the way i see things,maybe it need to happening to me to can say more.
what if an escort meet somebody and they will be together,but she keep doing this job? that means he will be her pimp? i don't think so. she is free to live her life.
so,i think you guys need to stop judging girls for their personal life,they choose it. you only can say if your meeting with her was nice or not.

[samlad]

i think if an escort is really forced to do this,she won't be so stupid to accept it. so,in my opinion,nobody is forced to do anything. if you want to do it you do it and how to do it. and when garda is coming, i think they prefer to say that were forced,and like that the police let them go,as they are just victims. i will never think that a girl comes to work like an escort without know where she's coming and if she agree to work for somebody,or give a part of her money,is just because she accept it. maybe i am wrong,but this is the way i see things,maybe it need to happening to me to can say more.
what if an escort meet somebody and they are together,but she keep doing this job? that means he will be her pimp? i don't think so. she is free to live her life.
so,i think you guys need to stop judging girls for their personal life,they choose it. you only can say if your meeting with her was nice or not.

I think this is a very good post Rebeka, as many people wouldn't have considered this side of things. The point here really is that there is usually a significant difference between what really happened and what is in print. I always say to people I know that there is the truth, and then there are the facts, and they are not usually the same thing. The 'truth' in most cases, tends to be a series of events that people tend to generally agree on rather than reeling out the facts.

Don't always believe everything you read.

[skywalker85]

i think if an escort is really forced to do this,she won't be so stupid to accept it. so,in my opinion,nobody is forced to do anything. if you want to do it ,you do it and choose how to do it. and when garda is coming, i think they prefer to say that were forced,and like that the police let them go,as they are just victims. i will never think that a girl comes to work like an escort without know where she's coming and if she agree to work for somebody,or give a part of her money,is just because she accept it. maybe i am wrong,but this is the way i see things,maybe it need to happening to me to can say more.
what if an escort meet somebody and they will be together,but she keep doing this job? that means he will be her pimp? i don't think so. she is free to live her life.
so,i think you guys need to stop judging girls for their personal life,they choose it. you only can say if your meeting with her was nice or not.

but 14yr olds cant make that kind of decision
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/mosl...ex-slaves.html

[Franken996]

if we are in the dark how are we to know? so I ask, are there any ladies willing to give advice if I ask if a lady is independent or not, in private, anonymous and confidential of course? I have no ladies in mind at the moment but in the future if possible?
PMs are most appreciated !

Anon- I share your concern but this is a really tough one: nobody with a conscience condones trafficking..but asking escorts to give objective advice about other girls is akin to asking Fianna Fail about Fine Gael- their activities are broadly the same ( they screw everyone of us) - but do you think they like each other??
Just a lil aside ironic observation from my New York perch: here in the land o' the free, you're much more confident in using the <Reputable Agencies> that the girls are doing this completely of their own choice.. any scumbag pimp can advertise a woman as being "Independent". I know full well I'm not exactly comparing apples with apples and this may piss of a few folks on here- but the observation remains true!

[samlad]

but 14yr olds cant make that kind of decision
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/mosl...ex-slaves.html

Indeed, but that's not the what is being referred to here with; this is regarding the recent events of escorts allegedly being forced to work for pimps. Regardless of age, it is still shocking in any case if it's a human being that is trafficked and forced to work against their will; regardless of age, the point is they are still in no position to make a decision if they are being forced to do things against their will.

[sweet rebeka]

but 14yr olds cant make that kind of decision
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/mosl...ex-slaves.html

i think here is the parents fault. like a parent,you need to know your child,you need to take care of his education, need to know all his friends, and maybe things like that will be just stories. but when a parent allow to his child to do everithing what he/she want,for sure that child will get into a bad entourage,and have problems with drugs,alcohol,prostitution...