In what is once again probably going to be a futile attempt to raise the intellectual bar in this godawful online dive bar populated with the stinking worst specimens of humanity (not me, but probably you), I have decided to unleash a serious debate thread on you all.
When (not if, but when) Ruhama and other pressure groups succeed in turning off the red light and outlawing escorting in Ireland, what will that mean for the average punter like you and me?
I personally worry whenever I read a newpaper article that condemns me (and all punters) as an uncaring pervert who laughs at trafficked women and is only interested in fucking them against their will - this sort of stereotype cannot be defended against in wider society. There is no way on this earth that the average housewife with a vote is going to believe that you see escorts purely because you don't get to meet girls because of your career, or you're stuck in a sexless marriage, or whatever other valid reason you have for doing what we do. Their own prudishness and narrow-mindedness will cause a swell of support for whatever reactionary thing is doing the rounds on the TV chat shows, with the ultimate result that, yes, the Dáil will eventually pass a law that criminalises punters.
There's no use going on about how this will drive escorting underground into the hands of pimps. Whether or not that's true doesn't matter a jot to someone who believes that all escorts are drug-addled trafficked victims and all punters are veritable rapists.
I feel that this is inevitable. It might be delayed for another year or two, but there's enough criminality and untaxed money in the world of escorting to make it a perfect scapegoat for whatever sleight of hand an under-pressure political party wants to use it for.
So. Imagine the scene. 24 hours ago the Escorting Bill was passed with a massive majority in the Dáil and has come into force (let's forget the Seanad). Now, the Gardai can arrest and prosecute a punter even if he is with an independent escort. A first offence means a court summons and a hefty fine. A third of more offence might mean jail time.
In a situation like this, I simply can't see myself punting anymore, at least not for a year or so until we see how this new law is going to be enforced. There are laws I'm prepared to break, but not with something like this. The fallout in my life from being arrested for soliciting an escort (both personal and in the job) and having it made public in a local newpaper would be devastating.
I was going to write more, but I'll wait to hear what you lot have to say.