A delicate matter to ask a lady

[Bogman]

I'd like feedback esp from the ladies on how to tackle a delicate matter when I meet a lady.

Quite a few years back I met a lady off this site and had a 1 hour appointment. I did not review her and she does not know who I am. She still tours, she is non Irish, Causcasian and has lots of good reviews from other guys. I had a good time but noticed that she had some BO, not enough for me to notice at the start but I did notice it when we got more intimate. It did take the edge off the meet and I have not returned to see her. All other aspects of the experience were fine and I would see her again probably if our paths crossed as she is a very attractive woman and provides all the services I enjoy.

Is there an optimum way to let the lady know at the time that she needs to freshen up, was I right to say nowt and carry on or should I have sent her a wee message politely afterwards to let her know. Certainly if I am not the freshest I much prefer the the lady to say and will usually ask the girl if she wants me to shower when I arrive even if I have just had one prior to coming.

[dr love]

Would you not make another appointment and get her to shower with you , and when the appointment is finished just explain I to her , she might not realise she was this way, and if she has good reviews shows she wants to do good by her clients .This can all be done in a funny and subtle way , oh good luck with that .: doc

[anon361]

Awe shite, I can't keep my mouth shut, it may not be BO, some nationalities because of their main diet smell funny, it's not BO, they just smell different

[Bogman]

Awe shite, I can't keep my mouth shut, it may not be BO, some nationalities because of their main diet smell funny, it's not BO, they just smell different

Def BO, not a diet problem at all, and I don't mind that some nationalities smell different, thats fine.

[sharkskin]

When I read the first post in this thread, I was all set to pile in with a shared shower comment. The doc got there first and he is dead right but I would make one small tweak to his strategy. After the shower as you lay down side by side, caress her body, lick her nipples and run your face all over her body and tell her how lovely she is like this - so soft and sweet.

[Bogman]

Some girls won't take a shower with you esp if they have taken time over their hair and makeup. Any ladies like to contribute their thoughts? I have never see the lady in question contribute to the threads so if you are reading this its highly unlikely that it was you that I met.

[paul_m]

tell her you have bought her some nice perfume and then just blast her with it

seriously it will not go well, you are basically going to tell her she stinks and then you expect her

to be ok with it and give you a good time?

[Justtryit]

I'd imagine, like the rest of us, she would like to know. It's a problem easily fixed and it's essential to this ladies work. A would suggest a very delicate and polite pm to the lady might suffice. She can either ignore it or act and she may appreciate the Heads up.

[wolfie]

caress her body, lick her nipples and run your face all over her body and tell her how lovely she is like this - so soft and sweet.

F*****g hell sharkskin, yer getting me going lol

[ksteve]

I'd like feedback esp from the ladies on how to tackle a delicate matter when I meet a lady.

Quite a few years back I met a lady off this site and had a 1 hour appointment. I did not review her and she does not know who I am. She still tours, she is non Irish, Causcasian and has lots of good reviews from other guys. I had a good time but noticed that she had some BO, not enough for me to notice at the start but I did notice it when we got more intimate. It did take the edge off the meet and I have not returned to see her. All other aspects of the experience were fine and I would see her again probably if our paths crossed as she is a very attractive woman and provides all the services I enjoy.

Is there an optimum way to let the lady know at the time that she needs to freshen up, was I right to say nowt and carry on or should I have sent her a wee message politely afterwards to let her know. Certainly if I am not the freshest I much prefer the the lady to say and will usually ask the girl if she wants me to shower when I arrive even if I have just had one prior to coming.

NO. There is nowt you can say or do at the time IMO. In fact, if you ever want to see her again, the same thing applies. Innocently specifying a shared shower is prolly the best thing you can do and then find some way to say how much you enjoy that fresh after shower smell. It sounds logical that an escort , above all people, would want to be told if they have BO but I dont think it works that way in reality. I think her reaction would be immediately defensive.