Escorts - saving marriages for centuries!

[Morpheus]

Morph, it's true what you said in your post. But, I feel that when someone is in a marriage, why should you result seeing an escort? Ok guys come out with the reason saying that sex life is zero, fully agree. But think of this yea, if the partner finds out, what will happen then? Seperation,half of everything,etc, is it worth it?

I know a lot of guys with wife/partners here visit escorts and say they take every precaution, so as the partner doesn't find out. So, in your own mind you know what you are doing is wrong but you still do it, why do it then?lol Just my opinion!

My take on this is that it wont save the marriage but it may help the people concerned to live together in some
sort of harmony. Once u have infidelity u no longer have a marriage only in name as the commitments given have
been broken,a breach of contract as such. But if people are prepared to settle for less than originally intended they
may feel its the lesser of two evils ,as with maybe children involved and financial constraints its not always easy for
people to go their seperate ways and they may decide to tough it out

Fair points lads. Not being married myself, I may have been a bit flippant in my post. Apologies.

Yup, seeing escorts - is cheating, there's no two ways about that.

However, part of the marriage vows (at least in Spirit) is to take care of each others "needs". So one can argue that there is a breech of contract on both sides - where a wife chooses to stop having sex with her husband and her husband in turn starts sleeping with escorts.

And before anyone gets on their high horse, may I remind you all that most of us here are either punters or escorts! So none of us are in a position to start throwing stones!

I think Ber has hit the nail on the head - that while visiting escorts destroys the integrity of a marriage, it may allow two people to continue living together.

[UKHeather]

I have seen many clients who complain that their wife is not interested in sex. Some of these men have not learned basic personal hygiene. Many's the time I have thought, I'm not bloody surprised!!!