Never!

[Susan Glasgow]

SO, I am not human? Nor do I have feelings etc?

Thanks OP for tarring us all with the same brush!

I recently tried to have a relationship with someone - my first in about 5 years. HE chased me, and I painted everything as 'black' as possible to ensure that he knew what he was letting himself in for (He wasn't a client). I asked him if he could really accept what I was doing... Yes, he said. Could he accept that I was going to be having sex with other guys, and still be ok with and not ask me questions? Yes, he insisted....

But 2 months down the line... HE broke MY heart because he couldn't handle it.

SO don't assume that our feelings are BS please.... I AM HUMAN TOO. I have a heart and it does get hurt. I'm not a robot, and I don't BS my clients. If a client tells me he loves me, I don't reply in the affirmative - I tell him that if he says it again, then I will no longer see him...

Mini rant over.... as you were xxx

[Cindy Forever]

ahhhh goooo on out of that.

I think love can come from it, on both sides, to be honest i dont see how one can respect the other by dating while working at this but it isnt for us to judge. maybe if u really loved them u might be able to look past it.........i dont know but what i do know is, it can happen.

whats ur problem anyway, u talk about this a lot.....its as if u would rather escorts to be robots and just have sex with no buzz.....they do genuinley enjoy some of their clients and they have feelings too......would ya believe.

I agred with you 100% my ex boyfriend i meet as escort and i stop work for stay with him and he accepted me as he meet me at the church..we had very happy relation for 6 years and was real love.Only finished our relation because our love end but we still friends.
Yes i enjoy with the most of my clients in special regulars.

[Cindy Forever]

Never fall for an escort lads, best bit of advice I can give you...

Only ends up one way for sure... heart break!!!

Tired of lies, false attitudes and all the rest of the bullshit too...

So sorry for your heart break.
I think you look someone as not enjoy with escorts or maybe with ladys in general...

[Army Girl]

I have one gold rule I don't meeting private with clients I'm getting a lot of this offer and never met anybody that's best choice lol

[anon361]

I think the ladies have hit the nail on the head here, Like I said if there is money changing hands it's still a business transaction, of course escorts are firstly women with hearts and feelings and it's only natural they might meet someone they like at their workplace like a lot of couples meet, then it's a normal relationship but with extra strain and it's this extra strain that i don't think many men could handle as we too have feelings and it's got to be hard seeing your partner going off to work not only to sleep with other men but I think the biggest killer for me would be the risk she takes going off to work meeting strange men in strange surroundings possible putting herself in serious harms way.

[davedrave]

Ladies Ladies lay of kk,he`s obviously had his hart broken,its not like he can tell a friend or family member what he`s going through so he used the post to get his deep thoughts out there,we all have been there,sorry to hear about this kk,hope all is well with you,just keep your head up n got back on the saddle,there is plenty of women here who will help you forget what you`ve been through

[sperminater]

I agred with you 100% my ex boyfriend i meet as escort and i stop work for stay with him and he accepted me as he meet me at the church..we had very happy relation for 6 years and was real love.Only finished our relation because our love end but we still friends.
Yes i enjoy with the most of my clients in special regulars.

A yes the voice of wisdom very well put Cindy and I'm glad your still friends cos when you break up it's usually bad blood, let's all hope we are the same ...

[slevet]

SO, I am not human? Nor do I have feelings etc?

Thanks OP for tarring us all with the same brush!

I recently tried to have a relationship with someone - my first in about 5 years. HE chased me, and I painted everything as 'black' as possible to ensure that he knew what he was letting himself in for (He wasn't a client). I asked him if he could really accept what I was doing... Yes, he said. Could he accept that I was going to be having sex with other guys, and still be ok with and not ask me questions? Yes, he insisted....

But 2 months down the line... HE broke MY heart because he couldn't handle it.

SO don't assume that our feelings are BS please.... I AM HUMAN TOO. I have a heart and it does get hurt. I'm not a robot, and I don't BS my clients. If a client tells me he loves me, I don't reply in the affirmative - I tell him that if he says it again, then I will no longer see him...

Mini rant over.... as you were xxx

Any guy thats say he can accept it is talking through his ass because acceptance comes with time. I find the guys who say that can handle it are the ones who cant.Loke the guys who say they are the same drunk as sober. Why would somone need to say that and those guys are the ones who usually go apeshit when drunk. Same thing. If a guy says he can accept or handle it ,run from him. Any logical response would be either say nothing to the q or say "we will see how it goes". Thats the way it should be at the start of any relationship anyway. Who wants pressure in a fun thing?

[Lucy Chambers]

Never fall for an escort lads, best bit of advice I can give you...

Only ends up one way for sure... heart break!!!

Tired of lies, false attitudes and all the rest of the bullshit too...

Perhaps you should change you then. Kind of childish to make petulant posts because you got hurt, we arent all the same thanks very much.


You tend to find that sticking your telephone number up on an escorting website makes sure you get your share of lies and bullshit too. Not to mention reading these forums. Anyone mentioned to their wife or significant other they are just popping out to rent a shag recently?

[kidkool]

SO, I am not human? Nor do I have feelings etc?

Thanks OP for tarring us all with the same brush!

I recently tried to have a relationship with someone - my first in about 5 years. HE chased me, and I painted everything as 'black' as possible to ensure that he knew what he was letting himself in for (He wasn't a client). I asked him if he could really accept what I was doing... Yes, he said. Could he accept that I was going to be having sex with other guys, and still be ok with and not ask me questions? Yes, he insisted....

But 2 months down the line... HE broke MY heart because he couldn't handle it.

SO don't assume that our feelings are BS please.... I AM HUMAN TOO. I have a heart and it does get hurt. I'm not a robot, and I don't BS my clients. If a client tells me he loves me, I don't reply in the affirmative - I tell him that if he says it again, then I will no longer see him...

Mini rant over.... as you were xxx

Works both ways too I'm sure, only point I made was there is a line and it was crossed with me...some women are just completely obsessed with money!!

I feel vindicated in what I said on here because she has been texting / calling me all day today, first it was denial then accepting it and apologizing for it...

I've been on here long enough to understand wise thing is never to get involved with an escort in any way because it simply leads to hurt...which it has!

anyways, thanks for the opinions folks...doesn't make me feel much better sadly