Never!

[patty]

Amber,
she is well able to defend herself, you and i both know that. She has already.. If she wasn't able to defend herself i wouldn't of been strung along in the first place..

Also as i pointed out to her myself, i wanted to see how other guys felt about this kind of thing, being perfectly honest, more support today from the lads on here than the last 2.5yrs together. Seems to me its a commonthing happening here.

The forum is free to use for all, it seems the guys are far happier to talk about this issue than the ladies

It is very hard for her to defend herself when you only post your side of what was said and how it was said when anyone talks about someone else but does not give both sides how is it poss able for the other person to defend themselves if it is that you wanted this issue to be discussed on an open forum i think you have to be careful how you word it so that no single person is highlighted but that the whole topic is talked about

[ksteve]

Well, I can honestly say the only girls who took me utterly for granted/trampled on my feelings or just generally treated me like disposable wrapping were girls in my non-punting life. I'd like to send a special shout-out here: "Thanks for making me feel worthless and despising myself when I look in the mirror!"

I have been treated with nothing but compassion and warmth by virtually any girl I met on this site.I won't lie: I do crave actual genuine human connection here but I never loose sight of the over-arching "transaction" element.

I will conclude by saying this much: Even in the context of the escort/punter world don't be afraid to gamble your heart if, in that very rare circumstance, it might feel like the right thing to do. We're all of us real human beings and that is very important to remember.

But at the end of the day just enjoy the apointment for what it is....

That is not a nice story at all Lincoln-- that is a horrible way to feel. However and not wanting to be harsh but all the nice women are not confined to those who escort. You should not have to feel that you need to pay women to be nice to you.

[kidkool]

well i think the only real support i have seen today is mainly that guys saying escorts cant fall in love with clients....which i disagree with.

i havent seen a massive amount of people saying that they think they got played like you did....which seems to be the main part of ur arguement. the only person to blame in this situation is you........

ps- i know i know...lucy played me, i got played too

in pm they did, guess Im the only one with balls to be honest enough about it on here
KSteve if i give details just makes me look petty so no

[Lucy Chambers]

in pm they did, guess Im the only one with balls to be honest enough about it on here
KSteve if i give details just makes me look petty so no

Jamescork doesnt count. He is just pussy whipped full stop. You looked petty from the OP. Sorry and all that old chap but when you hit adulthood you also hit problems, Sharing definitely aint caring in this instance.

[Mousey]

I wish Danny would fuck back off across the road and stop starting whiney little bitch threads.

[TheCelticDream]

in pm they did, guess Im the only one with balls to be honest enough about it on here
KSteve if i give details just makes me look petty so no

ok so u thought it was real and u really liked her? i would love to know if u have sent any escorts and sleazy messages asking them out or talking to girls in the chatroom while this little romance has been going on?

u seem like the kinda of guy that sends the same message to each girl, thinking they havent heard it 1000 times before.

[ksteve]

He is trying to say that loads of escorts are ripping off the poor romantic clients, as he feel such overwhelming support from you, the clients. And us naughty women are trying to evade the question. I think he is talking out if his arse personally. Dirty washing, anyone?

I love it when people screw up and blame everyone else. You just know they will do it again.

Okey Dokey. Sounds like he might have a point there so.

Seriously though, as Eve said above, an escort will say much of what the client wants to hear. Unfortunately, there are guys who see escorts for more than just the sex and I guess many genuinely believe a lot of what is said to them and if it makes him happy ,he will return for more and he will be given more.

[Lincoln]

That is not a nice story at all Lincoln-- that is a horrible way to feel. However and not wanting to be harsh but all the nice women are not confined to those who escort. You should not have to feel that you need to pay women to be nice to you.

Cheers mate. I stipulate all you have said. I know plenty of lovely kind women in my non-punting life. Also, all the feeling of worthlessness has largely dissipated these days: I know my worth (and its a lot).

My personal view of punting is this: An escort advertises to share her time, the sex and other intimate acts are paid for but even in that context I love the way we are able to show each other a little bit of each others personalities and that I believe is not paid for, that is just a nice collateral effect.

[Lucy Chambers]

Okey Dokey. Sounds like he might have a point there so.

Seriously though, as Eve said above, an escort will say much of what the client wants to hear. Unfortunately, there are guys who see escorts for more than just the sex and I guess many genuinely believe a lot of what is said to them and if it makes him happy ,he will return for more and he will be given more.

Trust me on one thing. In all my life I have never said what anyone wants to hear. Life gets interesting that way

[ksteve]

I would just like to say to all the escorts out there who have fallen in love with me. Sorry never meant to break your hearts....guys and gals, we are merely human and we get confused, lets stop tearing each others emotions apart, lines were crossed wittingly or unwittingly, the lesson is simple, know the lines and only cross them if you are prepared to face the consequences. I love all the escorts on this site and many I consider friends, and that is unconditional, if they are in trouble I will be there for them, if they need a chat I will chat etc. I will not ask to meet them when I am not paying for their time as that is what they do. I like to know the person behind the name both escorts and punters, but I know it is not real. Falling in love is not a rational thing, ffs I fell in love with a woman in a virtual world and I didn't even know her name, but I learned my lesson. I agree with Amber, let this die, there is at least one broken heart, if not two, lets stop trampling on both their emotions and move on....in fact lets all go into chat have a laugh and try and crash it again.

Whaaaat ?