Never!

[kidkool]

A priest is ordained into the faith, I have yet receive my papal baptism into escorting.

Newsflash. We are wives, daughter and mothers, All your post does is further extend discrimination against us living normal lives.

Its not a normal life though...client and escort can agree on that! weather its made legal or not.

This whole site is a cocoon for both sides! we live a life that is not normal on here and things are said and done for two reasons...

Escorts - to get money!

Clients - to live out fantasy!

It's blunt and to the point..simple as, Sadly my vision of the whole was blurred over for lil while and it won't be happening again...

[sperminater]

Fair Point stef but listen here I'm on your side but if some guy goes in to see you with all the expations of a fantastic time and he's ugly and you turn around and let him know that he is it's cruel there's a bit of give and take it's the same with all life if a kid is in a race and puts all his effort in and comes last your going to tell him well done so that's my point and it's up to us grown ups to understand whets real and what fantasy and let's fase it men punt cos they want to be in fantasy land

[Stephanie]

Whats an ecsort but a business woman and whats the purpose of business? To make repeat customers to make more money for a better living. How does an escort get repeat business? By making the guys feel special and how does she do that? By making him feel different or better or whatever and its emptional but who does the falling? The escort? Nope the guy does. I have called to escorts and have dated escorts and i can tell you the difference between the two is like ice and fire. If a guy cant seperate them then pack up pinting because he will be in for a lifetime of emotional turmoil created bu himself.

You are brand new on the Boards, yet very insightful.. have you been lurking for a while ???

I think you summarised the whole situation very well. But I think it can be and should be done without lying.. You can make a

client feel special and different without lying.. I do have some very loyal and devoted friends, but I make it very clear that there is

a boundary.. I do not want them falling in love.. it makes things messy. It is their job to maintain the separation. And we girls

need to keep an emotional distance to operate properly.. Even with very dear friends, there is always the exchange of money, to

be able to keep that distance.. I would much rather have a longterm loyal friend with whom I have been honest from day one,

then 'take' someone by lying.. Think long-term dignity and integrity, or short-term transient financial gain..

[Susan Glasgow]

Works both ways too I'm sure, only point I made was there is a line and it was crossed with me...some women are just completely obsessed with money!!

I feel vindicated in what I said on here because she has been texting / calling me all day today, first it was denial then accepting it and apologizing for it...

I've been on here long enough to understand wise thing is never to get involved with an escort in any way because it simply leads to hurt...which it has!

anyways, thanks for the opinions folks...doesn't make me feel much better sadly

I understand what you're saying, but what I am trying to say is that we are not ALL the same. Just because I am an escort does NOT mean that I am obsessed with money, and that I would love to have a genuine relationship - whether the guy had previously been a client or not.

Yes, I agree with you that there are quite a few girls out there who ARE money obsessed, but I do this through necessity, not greed. I wouldn't date a guy 'just because' he's solvent/affluent - there's far more to a relationship than that.

I feel for you - having had your heart broken, but don't imply that we [WG's] are all heartbreakers.... guys can be users and abusers too, you know. In fact, that's another reason why we do what we do...

And I agree with Lucy's comment....

Anyone mentioned to their wife or significant other they are just popping out to rent a shag recently?

So bloody true!!

[UKHeather]

Works both ways too I'm sure, only point I made was there is a line and it was crossed with me...some women are just completely obsessed with money!!

I feel vindicated in what I said on here because she has been texting / calling me all day today, first it was denial then accepting it and apologizing for it...

I've been on here long enough to understand wise thing is never to get involved with an escort in any way because it simply leads to hurt...which it has!

anyways, thanks for the opinions folks...doesn't make me feel much better sadly

Did she cross the line? Or did you both cross it? You have to take some responsibility for the situation you got yourself into. Then, deep breath and move on.

[UKHeather]

No offence but there are people that you probably should not have a relationship with , escorts and priests .

Now its true that escorts are people with the same drives and needs as the rest of us but it can be hard to separate her work and her private life , so much so that someone will end up getting hurt.

This is not ment to offend anyone
Just an opinion

And heavy drinkers, and gamblers, and people with issues, and psychopaths.. the list does not end at two! It is also subjective.
May I ask how you know it is hard for an escort to separate her private and escorting life? Are you a woman? and have you worked as an escort?
People are individuals.
These sort of assumptions really make me cross!

[UKHeather]

Hi there,

I beg to differ.. You see I am in the very fortunate position that I don't have to lie.. I get my repeat customers not by lies, but by

being myself.. I do not pay compliments that are untrue.. It would cheapen me, it would be insincere, and I do not take men for

such fools that they wouldn't know a lie for a lie.. I think that approach is self-defeating.. Makes everybody feel bad.. Tell a man a

couple of lies and he will never believe a word you say..

My integrity is worth much more than to sell it for a couple o'hundred.. If you come to me, and I

tell you what beautiful eyes you have, it's because that is the ways I see them.. If I tell you I enjoyed myself, I say it because it is

so. If something didn't go well or our time together was just average, I'm not going to tell you lies just to get you to come back to

me.. There's enough fish in the sea for me, why would I want a mediocre client returning, and have them return by lies?? Doesn't

make sense. Not to me.. My very humble opinion.

My guys know that thery are truly appreciated, they know that it is a genuine smile on my face, that I am

truly happy to see them..

Many escorts are the same. Most of the escorts I know infact. Let's face it, it takes a special kind of personality to be a good escort.
The problem is that when you are an open person who doesn't bullshit, some type of clients mistake it for love interest.

[UKHeather]

Actually the good escorts, the ones who can do the job , do find it ok to seperate their private with their work. If they couldnt then they wouldnt last or shouldnt be doing the job. Not saying its easy but they can and do ,do it.Women are able to have sex and shut their emotions off because a lot of love to them is as much a mental emotional thing as physical unlike most guys who see sex as simply physical. I think a lot of guys look to escorts to find emotional stability but thats like doing the lotto. You might find it but there are easier ways. These are the guys you see all messed up in the head.

The bottom line is escorts provide a service and that service is not to provide emotional stability because you simply cannot fill that paying money. If it were that easy none of us would ever date or marry. We would just call to escorts. Again escorts cannot provide emotional stability to a guy and i think thats where guys screw up. Its the GFE stuff. Its only GFE to a point and a very vague point at that.

Absolutely spot on!

[anitasizzle]

Never fall for an escort lads, best bit of advice I can give you...

Only ends up one way for sure... heart break!!!

Tired of lies, false attitudes and all the rest of the bullshit too...

The same could be said about punters; luring ladies into a false sense of security, only to reveal the true intent of the union once a ladie's defences have been penetrated.

[ber]

The same could be said about punters; luring ladies into a false sense of security, only to reveal the true intent of the union once a ladie's defences have been penetrated.

I think usually the aim is to penetrate more than her defences



Im being cheeky