Amber,
she is well able to defend herself, you and i both know that. She has already.. If she wasn't able to defend herself i wouldn't of been strung along in the first place..

Also as i pointed out to her myself, i wanted to see how other guys felt about this kind of thing, being perfectly honest, more support today from the lads on here than the last 2.5yrs together. Seems to me its a commonthing happening here.

The forum is free to use for all, it seems the guys are far happier to talk about this issue than the ladies