Never!

[kidkool]

I understand what you're saying, but what I am trying to say is that we are not ALL the same. Just because I am an escort does NOT mean that I am obsessed with money, and that I would love to have a genuine relationship - whether the guy had previously been a client or not.

Yes, I agree with you that there are quite a few girls out there who ARE money obsessed, but I do this through necessity, not greed. I wouldn't date a guy 'just because' he's solvent/affluent - there's far more to a relationship than that.

I feel for you - having had your heart broken, but don't imply that we [WG's] are all heartbreakers.... guys can be users and abusers too, you know. In fact, that's another reason why we do what we do...

And I agree with Lucy's comment....

So bloody true!!

i am single, no wife or girlfriend to answer to but that's just my own personal situation..

well its shame there are not more like you, think it was said earlier but no guy will be ok with his girlfriend doing this, it will last for period of time and it will finish.

Necessity is strong word, think it is more personal choice to be honest, pays well so you will be set up sooner than most of us..

Heather, she crossed the line i stupidly followed. Never said i wasn't at fault, i let myself think it was something it wasn't, I've said that already.

[sperminater]

Are you girls ganging up on us??? Good topic though so in conclusion "WE LOVE ESCORTS" and it's up to us to judge where our emotions are cos we are weaker when it comes to thinking with our middle leg.... And that little man has a big say in our thaught process, look the brain sends a blood rush down there and all of a sudden there's no blood in our heads so how can we think straight... Now where did I put my shoes ????

[Stephanie]

thata a good marketing post right there.

No marketing.. truth, my friend Nothing but the truth

[anitasizzle]

I think usually the aim is to penetrate more than her defences



Im being cheeky

I


Something told me to include 'no pun intended'. but I thought the better of it.

[Stephanie]

Fair Point stef but listen here I'm on your side but if some guy goes in to see you with all the expations of a fantastic time and he's ugly and you turn around and let him know that he is it's cruel there's a bit of give and take it's the same with all life if a kid is in a race and puts all his effort in and comes last your going to tell him well done so that's my point and it's up to us grown ups to understand whets real and what fantasy and let's fase it men punt cos they want to be in fantasy land

Yes, thank you Sperminater.

BUT I will not pay him compliments that I do not feel, and most certainly will be telling him to come back..

In my short career I have been very fortunate with my visitors.. However, on one occassion someone showed up that I could not,

would not entertain. He was a very nice man, he was polite, he was clean, but I just could not. And did not. Made my excuses and

apologised profusely and sent him on his way.. I felt very bad, he was a genuine nice person.. Geez, I could've turned him into a

regular-- by lying..

[Morpheus]

These girls are professional lovers, girlfriends & friends. they are actresses. They learn quite fast the right things to say & the right things to do to keep you interested. ..... But bear in mind a regul;ar client is regular cash, its business.

I have been there a number of times. But having learned the Client/Escort ropes now it amuses me when I get the ol' cliches... "You are my Favorite"... "I dont kiss the other guys the way I kiss you"... "I love you too"... etc...etc...

Its easy to get caught up in the game, and usually if you are not smart, get hurt financially and emotionally in the end... I could give you many examples of our fellow punters that have been caught, some quite seriously...

Its just a game guys... just a game...

I agree with a lot of what J.C. said above (even though he is a Langer!! )

I have no illusion as to what I am paying for when I visit an escort. It is for a fantasy - of being with a girlfriend/ lover/ horny stranger, etc...). And the better the said lady is at her job - the more convincing the fantasy. And it would be unfair on my part to ever forget that it is a fantasy and not a reality.

However, life being what it is and humans being humans - these boundries can get crossed. And clearly given the number of posts on this thread - this topic has certainly sparked interest (and not for the first time) and in some cases touched a nerve.

I think when a client see an escort regularly, there is going to be a relationship that develops. Usualy in the form of friendship. But as has been atested to by the OP, clearly romantic feelings can develop. And as in any relationship in which the feelings are one sided, it will always end in tears. I think clients are usually the more guilty for letting their guard down and forgetting the boundries in a client -escort relationship. Of course the reverse can happen but I believe the ladies are better at at keeping business and feelings separate. (I'm not saying that our lovely escorts don't have feelings, just that they generally have a clearer perspective of what the business relationship entails).

As for J.C.'s point about cliches( favourite client etc..) - I have yet to be the recipient of such lovely white lies! I'm feeling so left out here!! (Must be the Cork accent that attracts the women so!).

[sperminater]

I decided to take up escorting today my first appointment was with Mary harney I thaught I'd better tell the truth so I said Jeasus
Mary you so fat if I roll you in flower I'll find the wet spot" she ran out the door I'll never lie to a punter again....

[patty]

Never fall for an escort lads, best bit of advice I can give you...

Only ends up one way for sure... heart break!!!

Tired of lies, false attitudes and all the rest of the bullshit too...

I really dont think this website is a place to find a relationship it is for fun and fantasy if a client falls in love with an escort he needs to remember this is her work not her real life she will dress for fantasy and fun chat for fun enjoy time with a client and often become friends most clients enjoy going to one escort because they like how she talks or how she looks but they realise it is her job her work and respect that

[jammy69]

Hi there,

I beg to differ.. You see I am in the very fortunate position that I don't have to lie.. I get my repeat customers not by lies, but by

being myself.. I do not pay compliments that are untrue.. It would cheapen me, it would be insincere, and I do not take men for

such fools that they wouldn't know a lie for a lie.. I think that approach is self-defeating.. Makes everybody feel bad.. Tell a man a

couple of lies and he will never believe a word you say..

My integrity is worth much more than to sell it for a couple o'hundred.. If you come to me, and I

tell you what beautiful eyes you have, it's because that is the ways I see them.. If I tell you I enjoyed myself, I say it because it is

so. If something didn't go well or our time together was just average, I'm not going to tell you lies just to get you to come back to

me.. There's enough fish in the sea for me, why would I want a mediocre client returning, and have them return by lies?? Doesn't

make sense. Not to me.. My very humble opinion.

My guys know that thery are truly appreciated, they know that it is a genuine smile on my face, that I am

truly happy to see them..

And that's what makes you special darling

[Stephanie]

Yes, thank you Sperminater.

BUT I will not pay him compliments that I do not feel, and most certainly will be telling him to come back..

In my short career I have been very fortunate with my visitors.. However, on one occassion someone showed up that I could not,

would not entertain. He was a very nice man, he was polite, he was clean, but I just could not. And did not. Made my excuses and

apologised profusely and sent him on his way.. I felt very bad, he was a genuine nice person.. Geez, I could've turned him into a

regular-- by lying..

Grr, that should read: I will NOT pay compliments, will NOT be telling him to come back..