Never!

[wolfie]

any woman saying she loves you but still charging you for sex is taking the mick out of you.

This is the bottom line. Unfortunately for us guys, its well known that we allow our brains to disengage from our heads and move between our legs ........ lol

[Ebony Amber]

i am single, no wife or girlfriend to answer to but that's just my own personal situation..

well its shame there are not more like you, think it was said earlier but no guy will be ok with his girlfriend doing this, it will last for period of time and it will finish.

Necessity is strong word, think it is more personal choice to be honest, pays well so you will be set up sooner than most of us..

Heather, she crossed the line i stupidly followed. Never said i wasn't at fault, i let myself think it was something it wasn't, I've said that already.

I can tell you for a fact that that is not true. Some men can take it.

I feel sometimes people forget that escorting is our jobs not our lives. The majority of us have partners and children even if we don't tell you all about it.


Any way. I think you should leave this thread to die. If the lady in question cannot properly defend herself it is not fair.

[slevet]

I agree with a lot of what J.C. said above (even though he is a Langer!! )

I have no illusion as to what I am paying for when I visit an escort. It is for a fantasy - of being with a girlfriend/ lover/ horny stranger, etc...). And the better the said lady is at her job - the more convincing the fantasy. And it would be unfair on my part to ever forget that it is a fantasy and not a reality.

However, life being what it is and humans being humans - these boundries can get crossed. And clearly given the number of posts on this thread - this topic has certainly sparked interest (and not for the first time) and in some cases touched a nerve.

I think when a client see an escort regularly, there is going to be a relationship that develops. Usualy in the form of friendship. But as has been atested to by the OP, clearly romantic feelings can develop. And as in any relationship in which the feelings are one sided, it will always end in tears. I think clients are usually the more guilty for letting their guard down and forgetting the boundries in a client -escort relationship. Of course the reverse can happen but I believe the ladies are better at at keeping business and feelings separate. (I'm not saying that our lovely escorts don't have feelings, just that they generally have a clearer perspective of what the business relationship entails).

As for J.C.'s point about cliches( favourite client etc..) - I have yet to be the recipient of such lovely white lies! I'm feeling so left out here!! (Must be the Cork accent that attracts the women so!).

Yes but the problem (im not saying JC here just generally) is that guys will nod their heads here after reading but alot of those same guys cant spot it in reality. They say its just business yet cant tell lust from love. Cant tell a click from a buzz. Its never the girls fault. She advertises and its the guy ,from thereon in makes the appointment and shows up, pays. Anything that happens from that is the guys fault unless he was forced by gunpoint or something.

[saoirsemac]

You know what. If you are a warm and friendly escort, you get lonely needy men falling for you, convincing themselves they love you and you love them. We are being paid to play a fantasy here. If a man wants soft tender loving, he gets soft tender loving. Then we are accused of leading them on..

If we cut out the emotions as has been suggested here then we are then cold service providers.

We do try to be everything to everybody. That is the job! It is hard to find the balance and draw the line sometimes. We are human beings.

If a client feels things are more then a fantasy then that is HIS responsibility. If you are seeing escorts then you are playing big boy's games! Get a grip on yourself, see it for what it is and stop blaming the girls. You are not babies for fucks sake.

well said heather, i mean get a grip when u visit a girl u shud know yes escorts enjoy their time 2, but come on ffs its not a dating site!! and escort lieing how many of ye give real names? how many of ye are married gf etc? so look at yourselfs before ye judge us, ur grow men u shud be able to seperate sex form love!! i remember a thread not so long ago where the men said women in the case of their wives etc cant seperate sex form love and now ur complaining that we can
ffs

[kidkool]

I really dont think this website is a place to find a relationship it is for fun and fantasy if a client falls in love with an escort he needs to remember this is her work not her real life she will dress for fantasy and fun chat for fun enjoy time with a client and often become friends most clients enjoy going to one escort because they like how she talks or how she looks but they realise it is her job her work and respect that

True, til now i have never let myself get close to an escort, for these reasons.

Sometimes feelings can't be helped, they just happen. People can't help what they feel..

[wolfie]

If the lady in question cannot properly defend herself it is not fair.

A fair point

[monster_monster]

I can tell you for a fact that that is not true. Some men can take it.

I feel sometimes people forget that escorting is our jobs not our lives. The majority of us have partners and children even if we don't tell you all about it.


Any way. I think you should leave this thread to die. If the lady in question cannot properly defend herself it is not fair.

What do you mean escorts keep secrets from us, this is an outrage

[Ebony Amber]

What do you mean escorts keep secrets from us, this is an outrage

Shocking isn't it!
You could almost call us... Liars!!

[slevet]

A fair point

Nobody knows who she is so its an irrelevent point but its a very revelent thread as it might drive some important points home.

[patty]

True, til now i have never let myself get close to an escort, for these reasons.

Sometimes feelings can't be helped, they just happen. People can't help what they feel..

That is true but but i think if you do find you have these feelings it is better you keep them to yourself as it is not fair to the escort when you know nothing about her or her life