Funny thing is in my opinion the chatting up is half the fun...even for us punters...notice how the ladies that go on chat and contribute here do well, its because we all believe we have chatted them up in some way. So its actually a fiction to think that the lack of chatting up is the reason. I think they are just lazy buggers and afraid of those of us who are completely drop dead gorgeous with personalities that light up even the darkest room....(did I say that...have to stop those thoughts getting out) LOL