In love and punting at the same time ?

[Morpheus]

Do you think that a client can be genuinely and fully in love with his civvy street partner and yet punt with escorts at the same time ?

Interesting question Steve. I suspect you're asking whether each of us thinks it's acceptable or not, rather than whether it's physically possible. Because clearly there are many men in relationships (and still 'in love') who visit escorts.

Again it depends on what you mean by 'in love'. Some posters have shared quite openly on previous threads that they still love their partners and are dedicated to them but the 'sex life' has ended a long time ago. I feel for men in this predicament and think that this is probably the best outlet for sexual frustration (provided you don't get found out!).

I am single and have pretty much given up on the whole long term relationship thing - hence visiting escorts is a wonderful haven for me.

However, I would be concerned if I found myself back in a loving relationship with an active sex life and was still punting. I think that would bode poorly on the long term prospects of the relationship.

Again to each his own. And until we've walked oin the shoes of another man, we shouldn't judge him.