In love and punting at the same time ?

[Forrest]

i tried to love my partner to death.............fuckin bitch survived

You are too much, sometimes, WD


But, getting back to the op, I don't think I could visit escorts if I was in love.

I love my partner, but I'm not in love with her, and haven't been for a few years now.

We do our own thing but have stayed together for the sake of our family, but she would kill me if she knew about my escort visits.

[doodlebug]

You are too much, sometimes, WD


But, getting back to the op, I don't think I could visit escorts if I was in love.

I love my partner, but I'm not in love with her, and haven't been for a few years now.

We do our own thing but have stayed together for the sake of our family, but she would kill me if she knew about my escort visits.

The escort marriage guidance service....and a boost to the economy....a win/win situation....seriously though I know where you are coming from, I felt the same about my ex wife and that is why I decided to seperate, before I started punting or seeing someone else. I admire your honesty bud and wish you well.

[sperminater]

I believe you can be in love and punt at the same time. The same goes for being in love and escorting at the same time.

Just because there are a few things missing in your relationship doesn't mean you don't love your partner to death.

I take you point about an escort being in love cos escorting is you job and that wouldn't bother me either and I suppose my perdiciment is different so maybe it's just my own personal situation now I do love an escort and she can work all she wants It doesent bother me one bit but life throws these things at ya and the strangest times....

[mellors]

I'm not sure I quite understand but I think you mean it is different as an escort. It is just a job, just sex so you can still be in love with your partner. Well isn't this the same as punting kind off? If you are looking for just sex. The physical. You are not looking for a relationship etc.

Maybe it is different but isn't it all having sex with other people for personal gain?

I think it is different in most cases. You can be in love with your boyfriend and work as an escort. I'm not saying that you see it as just a job,but it is a very different sort of job in many ways and presumably in most cases it is for financial gain on the escorts part. Surely no matter how well you do your job, say a GFE, its not going to be the same for you as with your partner. Thus, the sex is just part of the job. Right I'm just digging myself a great big hole so.........

[doodlebug]

I take you point about an escort being in love cos escorting is you job and that wouldn't bother me either and I suppose my perdiciment is different so maybe it's just my own personal situation now I do love an escort and she can work all she wants It doesent bother me one bit but life throws these things at ya and the strangest times....

I can only quote Shakespeares Hamlet to you bud..."there's nothing good or bad in life but thinking makes it so..."

[SR71]

Was caught in this once,the lady involved went back to her home country and communication went downhill after that. Learned my lesson from that, its all professionalism now with the ladies for me!

[anitasizzle]

Thank God the men who use this site don't t represent all Irish males

[Rodney69]

Thank God the men who use this site don't t represent all Irish males

it's the ones that don't use this site you should be most worried about

[doodlebug]

Thank God the men who use this site don't t represent all Irish males

No I guess we are the cream, LOL

We aren't all bad believe me.

[anitasizzle]

it's the ones that don't use this site you should be most worried about

I like to think of them as men who don't use their wifes or girlfriends as emotional armchairs (support)