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    I'm guessing a lot of you chaps have certain ladies that you see regularly. Today I saw a client again and he turned up too bloody early (I said 3pm dammit) and I had no clothes or make up on! Not even a slick of bloody lipgloss. I was annoyed as I try to take a bit of pride in my appearance. It lead me thinking.

    My question is this.

    Do you hope/expect that the more often you go and see her the more effort she will put into her appearance and the session? Maybe she will start offering an extra service or allow a little extra time.

    Or does a part of you hope/expect that over time she will be comfortable enough with you to perhaps wear no make up or not need to do that really awkward sexual position that makes her back feckin kill?

    I'm not talking about hairy legs and a headache- you guys ain't married :P But just generally feel a bit more chill.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EbonyAmber View Post
    and I had no clothes or make up on
    was i meant to be able to read past this bit?...mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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    I think after you have seen an escort a few times, its a far more relaxed time, can be a bit awkward to begin with when you first meet a new escort. Thats not to say they make any less effort to look fantastic when you turn up at the door. Don't expect anything extra, thats strictly up to the lady concerned. There are two escorts I would quite happliy see if they were just slobbing around when I turned up (but somehow I don't think I'd see them like that, because they always mke a big effort to look stunning...that, I suppose, is part of whatmakes them special)
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    As long as theres owo I dont care Oooops did I just say that out loud... Feck that I'm off to bed.... Nite nite folks

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    Quote Originally Posted by EbonyAmber View Post

    Or does a part of you hope/expect that over time she will be comfortable enough with you to perhaps wear no make up or not need to do that really awkward sexual position that makes her back feckin kill?

    But just generally feel a bit more chill.
    Above quote sums it up for me,Amber.

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    I have never seen the same girl twice, but I do plan to change that. Speaking personally, I would hope that there would be a comfortableness between a regular and a girl. That may involve no make up, or better dressed, it may be just having more of a chat than normal. HOWEVER, and this is the important thing, a regular should have more respect and that means turning up on time not early and not when you aren't prepared.

    Thats my humble opinion.

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    In my experience with repeat visits to a lady I feel more comfortable and I can unwind and relax easier (even tho I am quite a reserved/shy guy). I dont expect any special treatment but if the lady does do something to make a repeat visit unique, then I am very grateful. That is a telltale sign of an exceptional lady imo.

    With regards appearance, I am not on to be too fussy when it comes to ladies being all dolled up, but of course that is nice. I have spent time with some ladies who are beautiful with or without make up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EbonyAmber View Post
    I'm guessing a lot of you chaps have certain ladies that you see regularly. Today I saw a client again and he turned up too bloody early (I said 3pm dammit) and I had no clothes or make up on! Not even a slick of bloody lipgloss. I was annoyed as I try to take a bit of pride in my appearance. It lead me thinking.

    My question is this.

    Do you hope/expect that the more often you go and see her the more effort she will put into her appearance and the session? Maybe she will start offering an extra service or allow a little extra time.

    Or does a part of you hope/expect that over time she will be comfortable enough with you to perhaps wear no make up or not need to do that really awkward sexual position that makes her back feckin kill?

    I'm not talking about hairy legs and a headache- you guys ain't married :P But just generally feel a bit more chill.

    Opinions and experiences welcome

    Nice thread Amber. My thing is repeat visits to ladies whose company I've enjoyed. We're not talking stalking levels! Just every 1-2 months or so. Or in the case of touring ladies - when she tours my town.

    Obviously I do see new girls but I find the expereince so much better with someone I've already established a connection with. I would have learned her do's and don't's. And she would have learned what really pushes my buttons.


    I would never expect anything extra from a lady that I see regularly - with regards to her time or service. I would never expect her to perform services that she normal doesn't just because I'm a return customer.

    I know some guys like the whole 'natural' tousled just out of bed look, but I really love it when a girl is all dolled up with make up, fabulous hair, sexy lingerie and killer heels. I like the imaginary GFE not the sort of real life GFE!. And this applies no matter how many times I see a lady. (And I will always give her ample time to get ready).


    The only extra allowance I would hope for from ladies that I revisit - would be the facillity to make advanced bookings. This is seldom possible with a lady I'm going to visit for the first time because of all the time wasters out there.
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    I'm guessing a lot of you chaps have certain ladies that you see regularly
    Have had a couple of regulars and, personally speaking, it's more of a 'connection' thing - comfortable conversation, bit of a laugh, etc. So, I guess after the first appointment some of the 'pressure' to please (on both sides) is reduced and it's nice to take a more relaxed 'real world (lol!)' approach. For some it's the thrill of a new encounter that matters most - in my experience as you get to know each other better and become more relaxed in each others company things improve enormously.

    If a regular thinks that it is ok to expect extra time, non advertised services or turn up early/unannnounced as a result of being a regular - they are a cheap creep and any self respecting escort will terminate the 'regularity' of their relationship.

    Having said all of that, killer sex is still a must!

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    Quote Originally Posted by doodlebug View Post
    HOWEVER, and this is the important thing, a regular should have more respect and that means turning up on time not early and not when you aren't prepared.

    Thats my humble opinion.
    This is true. However on this particular occasion I was in the wrong lol! I forgot to text him to say I was going to need more time as I was running late. Me saying he was early is a bit of a piss take

    I have a now ex regular who after seeing me every day for a week started asking for extra services. That pissed me off. If he hadn't asked the chances are he would have gotten a treat or two as I like to spice it up. Once he asked he was told that that was the end.

    Personally I make MORE effort with my regulars. It is nice when you know what someone likes and can surprise them every so often. Keep it exciting otherwise I feel it may slightly defeat the point. They became regulars not just because they turned up with the right fee but because I like them. If I don't like you the first time there isn't going to be a second time.
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