It's advertisers and the Media who go on about women ageing; as you said women no longer rely on men for their survival, outside of this business, so women nowadays have a healthy attitude about ageing yes, there's still a few, but mostly it's younger women who have bought into the whole thing about being objectified by men; usually the only people who say something about my age are younger, envious women or older, still haven't burned that bra, type of women.