Everyone has a different body and a different shape, we can't just put ourselves into tight body types and sizes. We need to embrace this as a society, especially about womens bodies.

I switch between a 10 and a 12 and a 14 depending where i shop! And usually I'm a 10 on top and a 12 on bottom, it depends on a lot of things, and having 'a bit of meat on my bones' is nothing to do with it. Anons list is all wrong, as someone else said, it's about height.

A 5'11 and size 14 is perfectly normal, in proportion and not 'heavy but holding it together'. Someone who is 5'5 and size 14, yeah they have a problem.

Also i think men think 'curvy' is code for 'fat' so just tell them you're a size 10 with a bubble butt!