i need help

[anon361]

All in moderation mate, you need to cut down for a start, sounds to me like some lady has her claws rightly stuck into you?

[dr love]

Cut back and as anon said, moderation is key .: doc

[Sam Spade]

It is very difficult once the delights are experienced to exercise control.
Perhaps even more difficult if 'logged-on' on a regular basis to see the new delights that may await you.
Simply closing your account will not solve the problem, as you may still lurk and sneak a little look.

Try something first.
Decide how much you are willing to spend over the next month on 'your hobby'.
Put all the money in an envelope and look at it. *
If you can't afford the money or don't want to spend this amount then don't.
However if you do decide to continue, then plan your visits around this allowance.
Once the money is gone, it's gone, so plan and select carefully.

At the end of month one, review your experience and then decide.

[davedrave]

All in moderation mate, you need to cut down for a start, sounds to me like some lady has her claws rightly stuck into you?

i`d say your spot on there mate

[patty]

i agree with doc "moderation is key"
going to see escorts can become addictive you need to balance your life between real life and play

[doodlebug]

Serious problem there mate, and you have received good advice, either moderation or cold turkey. If you want to go cold turkey, decide on something you want for yourself (not a girl) put the money aside to get it and treat yourself to that. It is in a way swopping one addiction for another, but a new iMac is easier to explain than two days of heaven with the girls on here. If you feel the urge then come on and chat, it is not the real thing but can provide necessary attention.

only my thoughts pal. Good luck whatever you decide.

[lovethegirls]

Would agree with the comments from anon about moderation. If you are going to see the ladies everyday i dont think i would enjoy it the way you should.

[Notatwork]

you should only spend what you can afford.i think your on a slippery slope there.this is how guys get caught out......wife wondering where all the cash is gone.....and where you are disappearing too......you need to back peddle and fast.......

[mathsteacher]

I think you need to have a chat with someone like ..... MR Fussy
ah no i think if you over-do ANYTHING you ruin it as everyone said moderation!
i dont think any sexual experience can be worth grand and half for two days.
id like to see who you visited, you could of flew to thialand and had lady for week and still have change.