i need help

[doodlebug]

Serious problem there mate, and you have received good advice, either moderation or cold turkey. If you want to go cold turkey, decide on something you want for yourself (not a girl) put the money aside to get it and treat yourself to that. It is in a way swopping one addiction for another, but a new iMac is easier to explain than two days of heaven with the girls on here. If you feel the urge then come on and chat, it is not the real thing but can provide necessary attention.

only my thoughts pal. Good luck whatever you decide.

[lovethegirls]

Would agree with the comments from anon about moderation. If you are going to see the ladies everyday i dont think i would enjoy it the way you should.

[Notatwork]

you should only spend what you can afford.i think your on a slippery slope there.this is how guys get caught out......wife wondering where all the cash is gone.....and where you are disappearing too......you need to back peddle and fast.......

[mathsteacher]

I think you need to have a chat with someone like ..... MR Fussy
ah no i think if you over-do ANYTHING you ruin it as everyone said moderation!
i dont think any sexual experience can be worth grand and half for two days.
id like to see who you visited, you could of flew to thialand and had lady for week and still have change.

[al1302s]

right everyone i need help and advice. for a while now i had the feeling my punting was getting out of control. i thought i could continue but over the last 2 days i have spent over 1600 euro. this isnt right!
it is affecting my life and i fear it will start causing me trouble. i cant afford the expense anymore and the lying about where i am while visiting escorts makes me feel anxious the whole time

please i need to stop but need advice.

i think the first thing is shut down my account.

ideas?

Hi James
It is a good move for you to come here and say what you already know to be true.
Like anything that takes you away from real life and gives you pleasure it can be additive.
It is easy for everyone to say do it in moderation but if it was that easy then you would
not have posted here. References to how much money you spent and what the others would
do if they had it is no help either to you. You have to meet this head on and you need to
go and chat to someone to help you deal with it. I think being on line and looking at the girls and
thinking wow I never had her is not going to help. Its like an alcholic in a bar looking at all the
lovely drinks on view and putting themselves in harms way. It is really something you have to do
yourself you have made the first move by asking us for our suggestions and knowing you have a problem.
The next part is the most difficult and that is either to stop altogether or decide that you have X to spend
each week and cut it down to that. I hope you can go and have a chat with someone maybe a counsler
you really need an outlet and someone to share your thoughts with.
Alan

[monster_monster]

right everyone i need help and advice. for a while now i had the feeling my punting was getting out of control. i thought i could continue but over the last 2 days i have spent over 1600 euro. this isnt right!
it is affecting my life and i fear it will start causing me trouble. i cant afford the expense anymore and the lying about where i am while visiting escorts makes me feel anxious the whole time

please i need to stop but need advice.

i think the first thing is shut down my account.

ideas?

never see the same girl more than twice and limit yourself to a maximum of one hour. Also, only ever punt what you can afford or at least set yourself a punting budget.

At one stage in my life I got a bit carried away by one girl in particular and had to drastically change my habits. The fact that you are able to admit that you need to do something about your punting is at least a step in the right direction.

[jammy69]

I feel for you - I think many of us walk a thin line between overspending and just enjoying the occasional punt.

From you're reviews you're doing 3 and 4 hour appointments and often Duos. You'd have to have won the lottery to afford it and to be single to explain your time to home or work. No one can keep that up.

I believe cold turkey is the only way to go. Just stop punting. And if you can't stop - seek help for addiction.

Good luck to you.