hey man, it's all about how you look at things, as EbonyAmber says a sexually based encounter with an escort would be better than falling for another woman. If your sex life is dull the thrill you get out of meeting a girl might actually spice up your home sex life. But if you're the type of person who feels guilty over stuff then you're probably better off not indulging.
i can honestly say i never cheat on my wife...or my girlfriend.
samlad (21-06-11), sperminater (22-06-11)
I've been married for 16yrs and started seeing escorts about a year ago. A few reasons why I did so.
1) had never had sex with anyone else not even a blow job and was curious to see what it was like.
2) I can have sex with beautiful woman who are way out of my league
3) I can experience various sex acts some of which my wife doesn't like
If you are going to have sex outside of your relationship despite the risk then I would say go for the escort.
If you get caught out, one women gets hurt. If you have an affair and get caught out, 2 get hurt.
Ebony Amber (22-06-11), lonely (22-06-11), English Nina (21-06-11), sperminater (22-06-11)
I must admit i find this rather strange, you're still young (although age is immaterial), why not spread your wings a bit before settling into a serious relationship, otherwise you're missing out on lifes experiences.
Come in she said "I'll give you shelter from the storm "
If there is ever any reason to cheat on your wife/gf then these are the reasons above.
If I were you I would go and see an escort because if you are feeling that way about it and if the chance did pop up to do it in a bar or something I would recon the chances of getting found out are away higher than seeing an escort, what I would do is go and see a escort for half a hour but don't go for sex go for lap dancing, touching messing about. See how you feel afterwards. If you do feel guilty then because you didn't have sex might help a bit.
personally i dont have a girlfriend, but i feel that if i was to meet someone i still would see escorts, because the sex is so so good and its the thrill of meeting someone new or someone you havent seen in a while, hope im wrong though..
ciara (21-06-11), DubJames (22-06-11), sperminater (22-06-11)