Who on here has a GF/Wife but still sees escorts....?

[kelso]

Ok heres the thing....I am 26. I have been with the same girl for the past ten years and I love her. She was one of my only two girls to ever sleep with. As you can imagine, I am a little bored sex wise....I need to have variety to get satisfaction.

I know this is terribly shallow and selfish...but lately I have had serious temptations to call up an escort, just to try something different.....I know that though I will enjoy it, I will be crippled with guilt afterwards, and if my GF ever found out she would never forgive me. I wonder if there are any other users on here who are in a similar situation?

I know I should try new things with my GF to spice it up, I have done but I still have the temptation to ring an escort.

How many of you guys cheat with escorts, honestly?
How do you deal with the guilt?
How do you not get caught?

This is a pretty weird post, so apologies for the nature of it.

in your case i wouldnt, your still young, but if you loved your girl would you have these temptations?

[pforce]

hey man, it's all about how you look at things, as EbonyAmber says a sexually based encounter with an escort would be better than falling for another woman. If your sex life is dull the thrill you get out of meeting a girl might actually spice up your home sex life. But if you're the type of person who feels guilty over stuff then you're probably better off not indulging.

[benin]

i can honestly say i never cheat on my wife...or my girlfriend.

[harry10]

I've been married for 16yrs and started seeing escorts about a year ago. A few reasons why I did so.
1) had never had sex with anyone else not even a blow job and was curious to see what it was like.
2) I can have sex with beautiful woman who are way out of my league
3) I can experience various sex acts some of which my wife doesn't like

[UKHeather]

If you are going to have sex outside of your relationship despite the risk then I would say go for the escort.
If you get caught out, one women gets hurt. If you have an affair and get caught out, 2 get hurt.

[doodlebug]

If you are going to have sex outside of your relationship despite the risk then I would say go for the escort.
If you get caught out, one women gets hurt. If you have an affair and get caught out, 2 get hurt.

I guess Maths is your best subject Heather, LOL, but a good point.

[UKHeather]

I guess Maths is your best subject Heather, LOL, but a good point.

Sorry I put women instead of woman.
Seriously though, with men you sometimes have to point out the obvious

[mellors]

I must admit i find this rather strange, you're still young (although age is immaterial), why not spread your wings a bit before settling into a serious relationship, otherwise you're missing out on lifes experiences.

[Zan]

I've been married for 16yrs and started seeing escorts about a year ago. A few reasons why I did so.
1) had never had sex with anyone else not even a blow job and was curious to see what it was like.
2) I can have sex with beautiful woman who are way out of my league
3) I can experience various sex acts some of which my wife doesn't like

If there is ever any reason to cheat on your wife/gf then these are the reasons above.
If I were you I would go and see an escort because if you are feeling that way about it and if the chance did pop up to do it in a bar or something I would recon the chances of getting found out are away higher than seeing an escort, what I would do is go and see a escort for half a hour but don't go for sex go for lap dancing, touching messing about. See how you feel afterwards. If you do feel guilty then because you didn't have sex might help a bit.

[davidhaveone]

personally i dont have a girlfriend, but i feel that if i was to meet someone i still would see escorts, because the sex is so so good and its the thrill of meeting someone new or someone you havent seen in a while, hope im wrong though..