It ain't that simple I know I've said too much already but you can see I like to talk a lot and I have talked till I'm blue in the face yes sex is a big factor kids a major factor I'll have it out every 6 weeks or so and it's grand for a day or two I'm just going to have to work harder I think but the punting has sorted out the sex craveings ( duno if thats a good thing or not) the other stuff will take time but I'm not going to stick my head in the sand