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    I was at a kids party yesterday where about 15 parents friends and family gathered in one room eating shit cake and weak coffee yuk I'd prefer playing with the kids more interesting and intelligent conversations.
    Well the subject of escorts in our town came up well fuck me the abuce escorts got was nothing short of fucking raceism, escorts are scum, escorts are dirty, escorts don't care, etc etc etc well I wish some of them would look at there own lives and we would see hyprocritical dickheads who sit on the front row at mass types. I had to sit there and soak up all this shite for 20 min and I was asked for my opinion cos I was very quiet and I always have one well I said live and let live luckily one of the kids walked in and called me out.
    Fuck me my blood was boiling sitting there listening to this shit and for the first time in my life I couldent speak up for what I believe in a very very strange feeling. Now I do do punt a lot maybe too much but that's my choice but I've made really good friends with some escorts ( in an escort punter way) and I know that escorts give up so much many have children living far away family issues some up to there eyes in financial shit and yea the money is good ( sometimes) but an escort always opens the door with a big smile gives us stuff you only dream about put up with weardos on the phone herasment people trying to rob them strange requests etc etc and when you see escorts out and about they looking very vulnerable. I know I sound like a lick arse but I'm glad I've discovered a new world it just makes my blood boil listening to people judging others who make me happy

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    I have been in the middle of very similar conversations with my friends. If you think it feels bad to hear as a client imagine what it feels like as an escort!

    People can be so hypocritical, narrow minded and rather ignorant. You just can't let it get to you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EbonyAmber View Post
    I have been in the middle of very similar conversations with my friends. If you think it feels bad to hear as a client imagine what it feels like as an escort!

    People can be so hypocritical, narrow minded and rather ignorant. You just can't let it get to you.
    My point exactly your not doing it for the good of your health but mind you reading your reviews and comments your right up there at the top of the tree working hard for every penny to keep us guys happy(now I sound like a complete arse lick but I do lick it lick haha)

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    Difficult to speak up when in that company. The trick I would use is the hypothetical, ask the protagonists if they ever put themselves in the place of escorts...why would you work as a an escort...what are the dangers....are they not people....etc etc. Difficult to keep it detached but very often gets a good row going and makes people stop and think. Other ploy is to use a statistic, did you know that one in 12 ladies works or has worked as an escort...then count the ladies in the room, always works wonders. Make up the statistic if you have to... only suggestions, admire your composure.

    Amber it must be really difficult particularly among friends.

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    Nice one doodle I think I'll use that one but I know the arguemet will get very paronoid I have to say I've been faithfull all my life of 47 years until I started punting last year and why well it's an unemotional encounter that I can leave behind I have had lots of encounters and offers on the table but never went for it it's just too complicated and now I'm in this wondefull world of stress relief and sex

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    Quote Originally Posted by sperminater View Post
    My point exactly your not doing it for the good of your health but mind you reading your reviews and comments your right up there at the top of the tree working hard for every penny to keep us guys happy(now I sound like a complete arse lick but I do lick it lick haha)
    Lol, I can only try.
    Quote Originally Posted by doodlebug View Post
    Difficult to speak up when in that company. The trick I would use is the hypothetical, ask the protagonists if they ever put themselves in the place of escorts...why would you work as a an escort...what are the dangers....are they not people....etc etc. Difficult to keep it detached but very often gets a good row going and makes people stop and think. Other ploy is to use a statistic, did you know that one in 12 ladies works or has worked as an escort...then count the ladies in the room, always works wonders. Make up the statistic if you have to... only suggestions, admire your composure.

    Amber it must be really difficult particularly among friends.
    Apparently in Manchester it's more like 1 in 3!
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    Quote Originally Posted by EbonyAmber View Post
    Lol, I can only try.


    Apparently in Manchester it's more like 1 in 3!
    I think we should twin Austria and Manchester, sounds like a statistical match, LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by sperminater View Post
    I was at a kids party yesterday where about 15 parents friends and family gathered in one room eating shit cake and weak coffee yuk I'd prefer playing with the kids more interesting and intelligent conversations.
    Well the subject of escorts in our town came up well fuck me the abuce escorts got was nothing short of fucking raceism, escorts are scum, escorts are dirty, escorts don't care, etc etc etc well I wish some of them would look at there own lives and we would see hyprocritical dickheads who sit on the front row at mass types. I had to sit there and soak up all this shite for 20 min and I was asked for my opinion cos I was very quiet and I always have one well I said live and let live luckily one of the kids walked in and called me out.
    Fuck me my blood was boiling sitting there listening to this shit and for the first time in my life I couldent speak up for what I believe in a very very strange feeling. Now I do do punt a lot maybe too much but that's my choice but I've made really good friends with some escorts ( in an escort punter way) and I know that escorts give up so much many have children living far away family issues some up to there eyes in financial shit and yea the money is good ( sometimes) but an escort always opens the door with a big smile gives us stuff you only dream about put up with weardos on the phone herasment people trying to rob them strange requests etc etc and when you see escorts out and about they looking very vulnerable. I know I sound like a lick arse but I'm glad I've discovered a new world it just makes my blood boil listening to people judging others who make me happy
    I too have experiences like this one.
    I can understand the ladies looking at escorts negatively, privately they all probably fear that their men use the services. Women - other women - & threats etc.
    I have also sat & listened to men talk with disdain though & there was one asshole who came over all indignant about escorts in front of the Mrs who I subsequently found out visits escorts quite regularly. One of his mates who was drunk, foolishly presumed that I was tight with him & spilled his guts to me. I had such a smug feeling of self satisfaction when I met the asshole again, I let it be known that I had spoken to his drunken pal & didn't realise that he was such a bad boy. He looked so threatened, still does, as I'll never use the info but it's fun having it.
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    The more I talk with the girls the more I realise how tough a job they have. Lack of respect is another part of it. It's a pity.
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    I think this conversation usually rears its head at some point between adults and I know myself my mates would be disgusted if they knew I was visiting escorts, never mind if they knew I went and visited TS escorts!

    It reminds me of one a few months ago in work, I think two guys I work with visit escorts or they have done before... but one girl in work, a right uppity bitch who has an opinion on everything and don't ya know it her opinion is always right...
    she asked would I get into a relationship with a girl who was an escort or porn star... ? I answered honestly and just said yeah I would...simply because what she did before meeting me is none of my business, if she loved me now and was genuine I couldn't care!

    Lately I've thought about it, why the fuck can't we just BE??

    Who have I to prove / justify myself to?? I treat my friends well and am loyal to them...so... when a topic of conversation like escorts comes round I sadly have to lead this double life and do as others have suggested, make a balanced comment... but sadly they listen to the ruhuma reports and have this idea of girls being raped and beaten daily!

    I hope someday all of us can just be completely honest and open and talk about these types of things because if we did...I think there are lots of very interesting stories, some funny, some sexy or kinky... whatever they may be... after all...how else do we educate ourselves but by listening and learning!!

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