I have a question for you my dear
Your statement was:
"In my country i was meet a lots , i was having a good friendship , i was not made differences because they are humans too"
If you do have lots of of us, having good friendship, this topic shouldn't be here. I have a few girlfriends who understands me well and they never have this issue. Basically you just don't understand it well. That's why you post this topic because you just don't.