Originally Posted by
ShySmile
I love anal and these are my top tips - if anyone has any different techniques it would be good to know!
Tell the girl beforehand (preferably at least a day's notice) so she can have an enema/syringe. It takes a while to evacuate so advance notice is good.
Let her know your expectations - ie. I love GFE and would really love to include anal. Although I would expect her to ask if you are looking for anything in particular.
Getting down to the nitty gritty.
I normally do this towards the end of our time together, so he is as hard as possible. Condom on. Lube up.
Play around the hole area with your cock to start preparing her and get her excited. This area is very sensitive.
Remember there are 2 sphincters down there that need to relax, so let her take the lead.
Only go in a little way initially (just past the 1st sphincter) to allow her time to relax her 2nd sphincter.
Hold back and just keep playing with that area. Communication is key, so even if you aren't talking, watch her body language. Once she is fully relaxed she will be gagging for more, so let her push back onto you in her own time. For me, once I'm fully relaxed and I have the shaft all the way in, I love the banging and find it incredibly sexy. It used to be the only way I could come!
Playing with her nipples, or pulling her onto your cock once you are in full flow is a real winner! (For me anyway!).
Never, ever put your cock near her fanny with the same condom you have just used for anal.
Remember if the girl's muscles aren't relaxed then it will be extremely painful. As I said, I love anal, but I once had a guy shove it in without any notice and I've never had pain like it. I bled. Unsurprisingly I won't see him again.
Hope that helps. Sorry if it was too explicit, but difficult to explain otherwise.