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Thread: Question to all.....Do you believe in one true love ?

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    Default Question to all.....Do you believe in one true love ?

    I know that we are not just a bunch of sex crazed money obsessed maniacs.......All I am asking is,,,,,,,, if I offered you a life of one great, true love in sickness and in health ....would you take it over what you have right now ?




    I know I would



    .....but it took me a long time to work this out

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    Quote Originally Posted by DollyDarling View Post
    Yes thats what I always wanted. Ive fallen in love a few times and I wasnt loved back as strong as I loved them. I do this job now to show a little bit of love to each person I meet. But yes, deep inside, I wish I could have one man love me so strong like I always dreamed of. If I found him, I would quit this job and be faithful to him. If I dont find him, then I will continue to ration out small portions of love in short encounters
    What a beautiful expression of what you do Dolly, I too believe in one true love, but sometimes that love is too strong for one or other of the parties. I fall in love easily and always try to have a friendship. I have an ex whom I love with all my heart and would give everything up for but she does not feel the same (at the minute, LOL) Dolly I hope you find your true love if not, then I hope to share a ration of your love when I get to your side of the pond.

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    i think we all would but the problem is what we percieve true love to be. life is not hollywood and is a lot more complicated.
    one true love is like chasing rainbows. we remember past loves in rose tinted glasses but if they were still with us i am sure they would piss us off somehow.
    The reality is the people who are truely in love are the ones you may least suspect.
    the closest definition i have of true love is my love for my child. we are not perfect people but our aspirations and dreams tend to want us to be. we have all been in love head over heels, very rarely this original love lasts and is recipricated, for the vast majority however i think we hook up and fall in love over time and sometimes fall out of love as well but it is not that crazy love we all dream about.
    its a lovely idea though.

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    in one word yes, but, i believe it is the hardest thing to find
    and sadly we many not realise it till its gone from us,never to return
    Last edited by wanted the best 69; 07-06-11 at 09:57.
    taking a break, but not gone

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    To have the one person back in my life who made me laugh cry smile all at the same time... The person who made everyday easier to wake up too.... The person who change my whole perspective on life

    If I could have them back it would be the wanted light of this dark tunnel I find myself lost in!!!

    I miss you so much babe xxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by tuam sham View Post
    To have the one person back in my life who made me laugh cry smile all at the same time... The person who made everyday easier to wake up too.... The person who change my whole perspective on life

    If I could have them back it would be the wanted light of this dark tunnel I find myself lost in!!!

    I miss you so much babe xxx
    sorry for your loss tuam, that is a cry of a man who has truely loved
    taking a break, but not gone

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    Quote Originally Posted by tuam sham View Post
    To have the one person back in my life who made me laugh cry smile all at the same time... The person who made everyday easier to wake up too.... The person who change my whole perspective on life

    If I could have them back it would be the wanted light of this dark tunnel I find myself lost in!!!

    I miss you so much babe xxx
    Aww chap that is moving --- Me too , but it was my Mum , sob

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    theres no doubt that the pain of a breakup ranks up
    there with as bad as it gets.

    since i experienced this, its like she took part of it with her
    or it healed diferently, but i'm unable to give too much of a shit
    about someone that way. to me, i am number one going forward!

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    I do believe in love. But not in just one true love.
    I think we are meant to love more then once in a life time. Perhaps in slightly different ways, depending at what particular point we are in our lifes when it happens.

    We tend to idealise the love we find in the earliest part of our lifes, unless perhaps the break up was too nasty. And we tend to work more on the love we find when we are more mature, as we don't want to always repeat past mistakes.

    But yes, I would say there is not just one person there for us.

    Giving up my job for someone I love? I can see it happen but not because a certain loved someone would say so. I like (mostly) my job but I still regard it as a job only, not a vice so I won't welcome or appreciate any demands to quit it.
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    I agree with Amy, as usual. Love is real, but the idea that there is one and only one true love out there for you is a load of Victorian nonsense. It's harmful when you're young and actually believe it, because it sets a standard which real relationships, always imperfect in some way, can never live up to.

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